Dear H:
This is what I sent to SD17. And it's not just about last Friday. It's about the way she has treated me ever since you and I got married. I didn't say much to you about it this summer, cause I thought it would pass when she realized I was going to be your wife for a very long time. But it didn't change. But I probably need to let you know these things before you even think of discussing this further with her or me.

SD17, we need to talk.

I don't know what your problem with me is, and don't particulary care at this point.

But the way you acted when you were here last time, before your father came home, is totally unacceptable.

You will not burst in the door screaming again. Next time, you can knock. TJ even knocks when he comes here.

You will not scream-(screaming I"M HUNGRY) within 5 minutes of being here. You are nearly 18 years old. Guess if you were that darned hungry you could've gotten yourself something to eat before you came.

Ok, ladies and gents. Your prayers brought my Mom thru her surgery - she came out fighting (mostly me!).

Thanks to all....

Now I need selfish prayers. I need "bewitched needs a job desperately" prayers.

I give up the thought of school. I just want out. Out of this abusive relationship. I just want to be able to meet my financial obligations, and show H to the door.

His screaming at me over the $180.00 for motel room when my Mom was in the hospital was the last straw. My parents are reimbursing us, tho they shouldn't have to as we live rent free in this house.

Last year SD17 drove her fathers Mustang convertible for a school car. It was keyed. It had holes shot in the side of it with a BB gun. And the windshield also had holes shot in it.

So H took the car from her and we sold it. Then she got my car. It has now been keyed twice, and now someone put sugar in the gas tank.

One girl was caught for one keying incident; I'm sure she did not do the second keying or the sugar in the tank, as she is now in some serious legal trouble for the first act.