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Making up time? Sports Edition
Not step parent related.. but divorcing parent related.. and will, at some point become steplife for these kids.. and the BM is my OSD.. so some relativeness to steplife lol.
Background
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Classic "wisdom"/sayings about kids and current culture
I recently read an article that talked about those age old sayings that kids these days have not heard of or would have people saying it's outdated. Things like "children should be seen and not heard".. "I will give you something to cry about" etc...
Well, you know what ? as a kid who was raised with a lot of those nuggets of wisdom.. I am making a case for why moving away from these kinds of things is creating a bunch of people that are increasingly less pleasant to be around.
Here are a few of the ones that stick out for me.. feel free to weigh in on your own.
Mother's day.. BM is not always the problem
Just a small example of BM not always being the problem. My SD is in the midst of divorce with her STBX. They do have a 50/50 schedule worked out..and they both made claims to each other they would be flexible when needed. They are doing the 2/2/3 method since they both are living close to one another and in same school district.
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Poll and Opinion.. Other Parent's custody time issues.
So, this is not me.. but someone I know.... and she is the BM...but wants to know what is appropriate.. boundaries.. etc.. re her Exes' custody time. Specifically.. when her children have sporting events.
Hobosexuals???
I recently saw a meme that said "no one falls in love faster than a man who needs a place to stay" (though.. I think women can be guilty of that too..)
and, it really hit me that many times.. there are ulterior motives that people have when getting into a relationship.
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In the news.. Minnesota State Senator/aka 49 yo Stepdaughter burgler
Has anyone read the story about Minnesota state senator Nicole Mitchell.. arrested for breaking into her stepmother;'s house?
She claimed she was just trying to recover some of her dad's things.. and his ashes.. because the step mom stopped taking her calls.. so that's how she decided to resolve it.
Look.. that was your dad's wife.. Assuming he had a long loving relationship with his wife.. why are YOU entitled to the ashes.. he would have left anything he wanted you to have in the will... I wonder if she was an absentee daughter.. until she wanted things.
Semi-off topic "grandparenting"
So, my husband and I had a little debate the other day about grandparents and what their role should be with their grandkids.
At one end of the "what is normal spectrum" is my husband's opinion that the more normal situation involves very involved grandparents spending a lot of time with grandkids.. babysitting etc...
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Sometimes I think these things are just made up
I read an article posted on Yahoo home page. A woman is upset because her EX and his new wife are naming their child the same name that she had given their baby that she miscarried.
When "confronted".. the guy initially goes deer in the headlight.. like he didn't remember that was the name given to his dead baby.
Then.. he kind of acts like maybe it's honoring the dead baby.. and no.. he won't ask his new wife to change the name.. because it's her baby.. and his EX can't tell her what to do.
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Campfire Talks.. and steplife.
I was talking to a very wise woman the other day. She said that sometimes we need to be mindful of oversharing.. and understanding the context of sharing our lives.. our dramas etc... She was talking about her sister who has had a somewhat rocky relationship with her husband.. and who tends to overshare around the office water cooler with her ladies she works with...
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Step Wedding double standard?
I know we have a few of these wedding issues.. where (because we are mostly SM's).. we lament our exclusion.. or marginalization during these events.
BUT.. does anyone see it as a potential double standard that it's wrong to exclude a step parent from an invite to a wedding.. yet we also often see (future) step parents that want to exclude their skids (minor and/or adult) from THEIR weddings.
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