BM is having her ovaries removed today to see if her supposed breast and uterine cancers has spread there too. If you've read my other blogs about SD's leukemia you will see why I say supposed.

SD15 got head lice again about six weeks ago...she gets is a lot but it is never her fault. When we took foster kids it used to be that she got it from them...then she got it from her other half brothers at her mom's house, got it from a friend etc...WELL IF YOU STOP SHARING HAIR BRUSHES AND HATS, you wouldn't get it.

My DH always tells me when I harp on him for putting the kids from his first marriage first and letting them behave the way they do that he wished i came into this relation ship with someone elses child so I could see his point of view...Sometimes I wish I did too so it could be HIS, MINE and OURs....so all these years that it has felt like me vs.

Sometimes I just love my grandma and her traditional values. She is a strong catholic and always reminds me that in her eyes and the church's eyes my hubby was never married before because he married a methodist (no offense if you are methodist, that is not my point) and the catholic church annolled his marriage to BM... my grandma just reminded me of this to cheer me up...and work her agenda the flip side to my grandma's pride in saying his marriage to BM didn't count is that I have to make mine count by getting it blessed in the church.