Well we received the offer of settlement on the CO modification from the BM from hell. She wants $586 a month CS. Us to cover the health insurance. She wants DH to lift the restriction on exposure to her SD18. We keep 50/50 of SS12 and she has full custody of SD14. Unbelievable. Our lawyer says she is only entitled to $96.00 not $586. Her lawyer seems to have pulled this number out of thin air.

This morning DH gets an email. Says that either she or SD will pick up SS11 at 8:30 AM. DH replied that: "Please send this type of e-mail by Saturday. I don't check my e-mail at 11 at night and if I need to get SS up by a certain time, I'll need to get him to bed earlier and let Jsmom know what the plan is. I get really busy at work at this time and for me to communicate this, I would have to wake everybody up by 7.

She obviously doesn't get the email and is at our door at 8:45. I answered the door and stepped outside.

We were supposed to pick up my SS11 and drive him to camp on Sunday with my son and their best friends. 15 minutes before we were supposed to pick him up, he come walking in the yard. His idiot BM let him walk home again without letting anyone know. I swear this is becoming a huge pet peeve for me. Anything can happen to him. I know we live in a town similar to stepford, but someone could hit him or take him, anything. She is the worst.

So much has happened with BM and SD14. We are giving up custody of her, but BM has to sign a document forgoing any support and making provisions for SS11. We are asking that if he wants to live with either parent such as SD14 has done, the other parent can't fight it. It may backfire on us, but we think that in a years time he would rather be with his dad and not his sister and SS15 and their daily drama. She refuses to sign it. Despite telling DH that she doesn't want CS. She now does at the advice of her lawyer. She makes about 40K a year more than DH. Now the drama.