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I was doing my best to stay in this marriage...but im not anymore? i just don't care and neither does he.

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Submitted by jstorie on Tue, 03/03/2015 - 8:55am

Things have been rough the past several years. The sd14 has acted out. got sent off more than once. but the fact is She is his daughter. and there is NO ONE else to keep her. bm is a low life that had all contact revoked from her crazy ass. Normally i would say great but now im just like what are we supposed to do.? All the problems in our marriage WERE from her. not anymore. dh has been without a job since september. putting the strain on us. we took out so many loans that when our taxes came back all of it went there. SO we are caught up and now we are going to fall back behind.

another round.

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Submitted by jstorie on Tue, 02/24/2015 - 4:22pm

i thought it would be a really good idea to go out of town this weekend. the family. have a change of scenery. I WAS WRONG. Princess threw a FIT she didn't want to go she wanted to go to her me-me's. me-me said no you have a family trip.I had spent 300 on a two night stay at a hotel with a splash pad and hot tub. i know that my sd14 is a little old for an inside splash pad. but i also bought tickets to a movie, and sky zone indoor trampolene park. well guess what she didn't want to participate in anything.

heres the end to the "he held me down and let my brothers shoot me with bee bee guns"

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Submitted by jstorie on Tue, 02/17/2015 - 8:24am

Well.... she wrote it. she sees nothing wrong with it. we sat down and said we want to know what friend wrote it becuase we will be going to the school in the morning to turn it in to dhs. no kid deserves to be treated like that.

WHAT WOULD YOU DO?

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Submitted by jstorie on Mon, 02/16/2015 - 2:38pm

So i wrote a blog earlier and someone commented that really made me think so let me make this quick.
I found my sd14 homework this was written on the back(i think its her handwriting and in the past she has made up lies like this)

"he held me down over his lap. letting my brothers shoot me with bee bee guns. 5x in the leg i got shot."

Gave it to my hubby, he confroted the sd. she said it wasn't hers it was a friends.

should we sit down with sd and say something?

a big step for me with disengagement...

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Submitted by jstorie on Thu, 02/05/2015 - 8:49am

Well, I feel consumed by my sd14. I am finally willing to give up this toxic relationship. This girl is failing all of her CORE classes. and computers. highest grade 52% lowest is 22% and she has two of those. The teachers email me DAILY about detention or her not paying attention or so on so forth. I'm sick of it. Is consumes me. I have to let it all go. So I wrote the teachers this email.

"Dear Teachers,

I shouldn't care more than you.

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Submitted by jstorie on Wed, 02/04/2015 - 8:41am

So I went out with a friend to do a wine and paint class. DH took sd14 to counsling. He did not talk to the counsler about the things we talked about. for instance drugs. he said he approached the subject. he told her that you may not od from taking one medicine or you might you never know. really? how about say some of the side effects of meds? i just said whatever then. i said i guess i shouldn't care more than your right? we think she took pills that didn't belong to her and you have nothing to say about it. he got his feelings so hurt. im not dealing with it any more. done.

What would you do?

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Submitted by jstorie on Mon, 02/02/2015 - 1:25pm

Okay my sd's counsler said a month ago give me 2 months. This was after SD14 laid her hands on me and left some bruises. I told counsler whatever. I told dh and counsler i wanted her out of my house. Sd has not laid her hands on me again since. but i have also stayed the hell away from her. I don't want to be near her. I find myslef looking for things to be pissed off about. I don't ever have to look hard. not at all. So she is failing all of her classes and won't get this damn agenda thing signed.

GIVE UP ON ME STOP CARING THEY ARE NOT GOING TO FAIL ME ANYWAY THEY HAVE TO PASS ME ON TO 9TH GRADE!

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Submitted by jstorie on Thu, 01/29/2015 - 9:19am

Dh and SD14 have been fighting for as long as I can remember i recently disengaged and I am not very good at it. I'm really trying. Well Dh has been taking the sd14 outside when things escalate. u can hear the screaming all the way in the house. its really frustrating. but better out there. its not in me and the boy's faces. well he is supposed to keep up with her agenda. i remind him everyday. well guess what i told her go to the table to do her home she sits there and stares at me at the table wads up the paper. it was something that took two mins if she did it right. i have no idea.

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