Interesting news from our tax advisor (my mom- lol)

Apparently the stimulus checks that have gone out in 2020 were based on 2020 taxes (what we are filing this year). So, we have an additional credit for my SS that BM has already received. 

She said nothing is guaranteed right now but it appears that we might get that money in our return and BM will have to repay it since we get to claim him this year.

The last couple of days have been pretty frustrating. I have made calls to SSstb21's therapist and DARS counselor. Both of them say that we are in the land of no help. While SS is disabled and not able to live on his own (neither think that he is even close to being ready to live on his own with a roommate), he isn't disabled enough for any services that would help with a group home. 

I called the city attorney today and this is how it went:

She said that she is still waiting on more information before she decides if she will charge BM. I asked if there was anything that we could do or push for- She said no. I asked if she would like to speak with DH and our attorney for clarification on the history and she said no, it has no bearing on this case.

Then she said:

“You guys have a lot going on independent of this. I wouldn’t concern yourself with what is happening here. Have a good day. Good bye.”

8 years ago today I was thrown up against the wall, held by my throat and told that he would make sure I never saw my kids again. This happened in front of my daughter (5 yrs old) who was standing on the stairs right behind the monster I married. 

8 years ago today I took out a restraining order and had the police escort him and his kid out of our house. I pawned my wedding ring and hired movers to come the following day. I found an apartment paid my deposit and was gone all within 24hrs with my 2 bio kids in tow.