And I mean it, I hate him. Drug addict apologized to my DH as part of his recovery and there is no mention of what he did to ME! I was acting like his parent for years - he lived with us for years. Now I know from Day 1 he only pretended to like me because he wanted money.

I told DH he will not be at any family functions and he has to pay me back for the money I gave him for school.

Now I am going to focus on moving on. I will NEVER lay eyes on the loser ever again.

Based on yesterday I am pretty sure we will not be hearing much from ss21. After Saturday when he comes to get some of his crap out of our house he will have not much use for me or DH. Now all about mooching from BM. So since DH and I have cut him off financially I really do not think he will have much use for us.

Very sad and I feel sorry for DH. Have a very low expectation he will reach out on Father's Day.

What would you do - SS21 is a drug addict, used me for money and now after spending 1 year in several rehabs he is moving back near us and enabling BM footing all the bills. DH has already told his son we are not paying any more - we have paid for a lot of rehab, cars, school - we are done.

I was used and manipulated for money. I cannot see the kid and he is not allowed in our house.

My SIL is having a party for her son who is graduating HS. I just cannot go if SS21 is there - I am afraid of him he gives me the creeps and he still a big MOOCH.

Bi polar drug addict SS21 moving 10 mins away from us. Has been in and out of some form of rehab for the past year. For the last 6 months he has been living in another state. BM claims he has gone through 12 step program - don't believe because he has not apologized to DH for what he did. Nothing has changed - still no job, not even talking about getting a job. Blames mental illness on everything even though his therapist said there is no reason why he cant hold a job. Just does not want to.