So, it's time to give parenthood a shot. I finally have some downtime to make some appointments and get this ball rolling. However, I am in need of some opinion/insights on which route to go.

DH could get a vasectomy reversal. Pro of this is that the child is biologically his (which would irk BM to no end, and I get some twisted pleasure out of that). Con is that it has been a LONG time, DH has been a smoker and hasn't been the nicest to his body, and he got the full enchilada when he got snipped. He was really planning on never having kids again. Also, this route gets pricey.

UPDATE: MY MIL JUST WELCOMED BM BACK TO THE FAMILY NAME!

WHAT. THE. DUCK.

ORIGINAL: So, I had assumed that her changing her name back to DH's after a decade as her DH's name was a result of her getting divorced.

Apparently I was right. Apparently it happened a month ago. Apparently I knew because she said it in front of me at one of the drop offs (clearly I pay attention) according to DH.

This is just an open discussion, so please be civil.

We all know that CS is a touchy topic and that some Naps pay a boatload and others pay very, very little.

So, my question is, at what point does a NCP pay enough to say "that is what CS is for"? At what point does a NCP need to get a better paying job/a second job?

And...go!

I have been getting an INSANE number of pop-up ads from the website on my phone, and it only seems to be getting worse. Every time I come back to the main blog page, pop-up. Half the time I click on a blog, pop-up.

Anyone else experiencing this? Dawn - is there anything that can be done on the admin side? I understand that you need to make money on the ads, but this is getting absolutely ridiculous.