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Recently my relationship w my FH has taken a turn for the worse.... 

a little back story... we've been together for Four years and live together. His ss6 and I have a great relationship and always have. Although his BM causes drama and is annoying, she and FH were never together ("dated"for 2 weeks, more like a texting relationship and meet up to have sex and that's how the child was made) although she was pretty obsessed w FH due to him being the dad. 
 

Would you?

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Some times I wonder if I could go back in time and decide to not move forward in a serious relationship w a man who shares a child w another woman, would I? I was only 22 at the time.. but our chemistry was so palpable it was a whirlwind first month of dating. Love came quickly and easily. I had no idea what was in my (4yr) future, didn't have online resources for help, certainly had no friends w experiences. 
 

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When do you give up?

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I'm so tired....

ive been with my bf for 4 years and I'm at the point where I'm ready for marriage. His SS and I have the best relationship and he loves me dearly. Although I will never like the way he was conceived (1 night stand) we're still amicable and have a good schedule w his bio mother. 
 

Bf is nearing 30 and I'm in my mid 20s. He thinks the issue lies w financial aspects but I just don't understand that bc nothing much would change. 

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When do you give up?

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I'm so tired....

ive been with my bf for 4 years and I'm at the point where I'm ready for marriage. His SS and I have the best relationship and he loves me dearly. Although I will never like the way he was conceived (1 night stand) we're still amicable and have a good schedule w his bio mother. 
 

Bf is nearing 30 and I'm in my mid 20s. He thinks the issue lies w financial aspects but I just don't understand that bc nothing much would change. 

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Grandparents

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Okay so this is a touchy subject for most people and I understand that. 
 

I grew up in a family where I got to see my grandparents kind of often when I was young, bc we lived near them still, then we moved to a diff state and we began seeing them only during holidays, occasional special visits etc. that was fine w me as a child and if anything it made my time with them all the more special! 
 

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