I am wondering what i should do. It seems like i care more for my sd6 then my husband does sometimes. Like his item of spending time with the child is watching TV, which i don't approve of cuz the tv is not a babysitter and your not spending time with the child. With everything that is going on with the BM and not having a good relationship with the child i really wonder what I should be leaning towards continueing to have a relationship with the child or stop trying to be so close with the SD6.

Well out of the whole battle this is the first weekend that we didn't get our sd6. I'm not that suprized because i think the bm is trying to get us to go to court and have our visits taken away for good. We haven't been able to talk to the child is almost 2 weeks, last time we had her for visitation. bm calls us private and tells us that her lawyer said that we don't get everyother weekend like the co has been for the last two years. I just can't believe this and when we do go back to court she will likely win because she's the damn blood mom.

I currently live in Virginia and My huband has gone from joint custody to visitation because he is not the bio-parent. We currently are haveing trouble with the BM not letting the child talk to us on the phone and along with other drama and hurt feelings for both my family and mostly the child. I was wondering if there was anyone who would have some advise for us with dealing with the court system. we think that it would be a good idea to place the child in therapy and have no clue if the court would even hear us out. Help???