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Flowers and struggles. Warning long post.

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Submitted by MissK03 on Mon, 02/08/2021 - 6:22pm

Well... with Valentine's Day approaching I thought I'd share my flowers story.

This blends into something else I struggle with when it comes to my relationship with SO. (I'll explain in the end) 

In the beginning of my relationship with SO he bought me flowers often. Just because flowers. I was never a "flowers" girl but, I appreciated them none the less.

Two years in we were driving to his brothers house for his nephews birthday party. He had bought me flowers that day and he was talking about the place he would get them from and how they had "nice" ones that day.

Update to my approach with SO on puppy and what BM might pull.

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Submitted by MissK03 on Fri, 02/05/2021 - 2:11pm

Well, SO called me to say that BM texted him to tell him how proud she was of SD for her teachers recommendation to put her into advanced science next year. (She will be starting high school) SD brought this up last night already but, the teacher sent an email today to them. 
 

Blah blah blah BM you don't contribuate to any part of actually raising these kids. 
 

Quarantine almost over.

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Submitted by MissK03 on Wed, 01/06/2021 - 3:11pm

Hey everyone! Hope everyone is well in the new year! I took a mini mental break and I'm doing better now. The death of our dog really took an emotional toll on me (and everyone else especially SO and SS16) so had to take a step back. I was crying for days.  I was impressed with SD and how well she took it and SS17 was upset but seemed to get over quicker. 
 

Well... there go plans for a quiet Christmas morning.

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Submitted by MissK03 on Fri, 12/18/2020 - 8:03pm

Well... BM texted SO saying she wasn't taking the skids this year on Xmas eve and she is going to do lunch with them Xmas day. She said she would pick them up at 11 and have them home at 130 when SO gets home. 
 

The ONE night a year she takes them and she cancelled. Used the boys working till 7/8 as an excuse.. which is a bunch of BS because we normally drop them at 10pm Xmas eve. 
 

She has plans. End of story. Unreal! 

SO put his job up for bid for the day so he might get it off but doubtful. 

OT (kind of) the little nice gestures of teens.

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Submitted by MissK03 on Wed, 12/16/2020 - 3:32pm

Just a quick story of a nice gesture.

So, yesterday two of SS16s friends stopped here quick to see our dog. Whoever doesn't know, she's sick not sure how much longer she has with us. 
 

When SS16s friends would come over (mainly before COVID) she was always in the middle of all them loving up the at the attention so the boys wanted to say their "goodbyes" to her. I wasn't home when they came. 

Should have known there was a twist.

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Submitted by MissK03 on Fri, 12/04/2020 - 9:08pm

Well, for everyone who read my last blog.. BM took SD out two weeks for the first time since august 2019. Oh, and went into our house using my sick dog as an excuse while SO and myself were at work.  She literally has not done anything with skids all year besides taking SS's out for their bdays and SS17 once for pizza. SDs birthday was in April so, BM stopped here in the driveway, brought her Dunkin (only her not the boys) didn't even give her a card for her 13th birthday instead sent SO $100 via PayPal for her birthday. 
 

Someone talk me off the ledge.

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Submitted by MissK03 on Sat, 11/21/2020 - 8:11am

I'm so livid right now I can't even explain. 
 

So Wednesday we got very sad news about our 7 year old American bulldog/boxer. She went to the vent because of a lump on her back but, that was just a fatty tumor and the X-rays showed she has a large mass in her lung and stomach. She's had a rough year with cancer... leg amputated last October, a nipple had to be cut in off in may because of cancer so there really isn't anything we can do. She's acting OK. Still eating and happy but, she's been more sleepy. 
 

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