Well... BM texted SO saying she wasn't taking the skids this year on Xmas eve and she is going to do lunch with them Xmas day. She said she would pick them up at 11 and have them home at 130 when SO gets home. 
 

The ONE night a year she takes them and she cancelled. Used the boys working till 7/8 as an excuse.. which is a bunch of BS because we normally drop them at 10pm Xmas eve. 
 

She has plans. End of story. Unreal! 

SO put his job up for bid for the day so he might get it off but doubtful. 

Well, for everyone who read my last blog.. BM took SD out two weeks for the first time since august 2019. Oh, and went into our house using my sick dog as an excuse while SO and myself were at work.  She literally has not done anything with skids all year besides taking SS's out for their bdays and SS17 once for pizza. SDs birthday was in April so, BM stopped here in the driveway, brought her Dunkin (only her not the boys) didn't even give her a card for her 13th birthday instead sent SO $100 via PayPal for her birthday. 
 

First, I can't stand it and same for SO.

SS17 talks fo BM on speaker phone. Every. Single. Time. It's not that often that we catch it but probably like once a month. He has been talking to her more recently though. She doesn't have an iPhone so it's not FaceTime. Regular phone call. 
 

Now it's not like it's quite speaker..it's volume all the way up so you can hear the whole convo speaker. 
 

I am honestly starting to think he possibly is doing this on purpose. SS17 is BM that what triggers this thought for me.

So tonight is another one is those nights that SO spots a vape wrapper on the boy's floor. 
 

I was downstairs drinking a white claw not getting involved one bit as he tears apart SS17's side of the room. 
 

SO comes downstairs empty handed. I say what's going on? SO says what's happening.. I say my guess it's somewhere because if it was actually his "friend's" as he claimed he would be flipping out... since he isn't flipping it's somewhere. SO goes upstairs spots in SS17's pocket.