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The cycle continues

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Submitted by overworkedmom on Fri, 04/04/2014 - 8:57am

I posted yesterday about having the divorce talk when I was at work. We had ended that conversation with "there is nothing left to salvage, everything is overworked's fault, and the only thing he has ever done wrong is work to hard for our family" :sick:

Just had the Divorce Talk

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Submitted by overworkedmom on Thu, 04/03/2014 - 11:42am

Well, AHH called me at work to have it out. It all ended with him saying that there is nothing left to salvage. So that is a good thing. I think he will do better feeling like he is in control. He is going to think about how he wants to proceed and we are going to talk again tonight.

Wish me luck! I just want this to go smoothly.

I am not going to make it until the end of the school year...

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Submitted by overworkedmom on Wed, 04/02/2014 - 6:51am

As many of you know I am planning on moving out and getting divorced. Last night AHH blew up and was cussing at my kids. SS got all up in the middle of it. It was so out of control. I told him to leave my kids alone and left the house. They were gone when we got back and I was asleep already when he came home with SS. We haven't talked yet. I didn't even wake SS up before I left today. I just got me and my bios out of there.

Going on strike!

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Submitted by overworkedmom on Thu, 03/27/2014 - 6:00pm

It is only a matter of time before I am able to move out with my bios and I probably shouldn't rock the boat right now because I am not ready to leave, but F this!!!!! I am not just disengaging, I am on strike. I will not do a god damn thing for either one of those idiots.

I told ahh that he needs to put ss in check because his mouth is out of control. Ahh says to me "your the one I need to put in check". I told him that this is why his son is a little asshole and slammed the door. I am D.O.N.E.

So tired of pretending

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Submitted by overworkedmom on Wed, 03/26/2014 - 7:20am

Over this past weekend I realized just how emotionally exhausted I am. I know that the end is near for my marriage, I know that there will be peace in less than 2 months. But it doesn't help the absolute exhaustion I feel now. I am tired of smiling at AHH. I am tired of making SS lunch and dinner. I am tired of pretending it is all going to be alright. I feel like a Stepford wife, without the sex. At least those women got laid!!! I don't want to live in a battle zone so I will keep on pretending. I just really need a break...

I know religion is a hot button issue on here BUT....

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Submitted by overworkedmom on Fri, 03/14/2014 - 7:01am

I feel like God has a plan. I lost out on 3 townhouses this week for me and my kids. The house I saw yesterday was a bust. Then, I got home and was served from my kids dad. Great day right!! This was the hearing where I was told he was suing for custody because DS is fat, but at the same time sports are unsafe. After a bottle of wine and a little pity party I finally read the paperwork.

I am so crushed tight now

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Submitted by overworkedmom on Thu, 03/13/2014 - 1:09pm

I got an e-mail back for the rental agency and they owners took the other person who filled out an application. I am just devastated!

The school zone that I am in is really weird and there is just nothing for rent in that zone. I can't get over that it went to someone else.

I called the principal that the school and she said she would approve the kids living in the district but in another elementary school zone to still attend there as long as they had transportation. This is still so crappy!

Playing perfect husband

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Submitted by overworkedmom on Thu, 03/13/2014 - 7:00am

AHH (a$$hole hubs) made it a week and then, just like that he was back to his old self. I actually was having a few nagging doubts about leaving. That maybe this last fight made things click for him. NOPE. He can only be a decent human being for 1 week, and only after a crisis. What kills me is that it wasn't like this until we got married. As soon as we tied the knot he wanted total control over me. He doesn't like that I work. In fact he said the only reason I have my job is so that I can prepare to leave him. That wasn't ever the case until now, but hey, I guess it is what it is.

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