My exh is taking me back for reduced cs. He lied to the judge about his up coming deployment so that he scrapes by at the shared custody visitation time so that it drops by $250/month. Anyway, his gf (that was married and still living with her husband when they first got together) is in the same unit. I knew she wouldn't leave her 2 yr old and I have been expecting that she was going to "accidentally" get knocked up any day.

Yep, they called tonight to let me know. Lmao all I could say was "yep, I figured. Congrats. "

So, we got the letter from our insurance company stating that DH/SS's policy is about to expire and we can either go to marketplace or we can try and find a new policy with them. I called and found out our options. We can't afford to put them on my company policy since that is 3x what we currently pay. We are just going to have to bite the bullet and pay the 25% increase for basically what we have now.

OK, so a couple of months ago my ex took me back to court jumping up and down how he wanted a month in the summer with the kids. Ok- I agreed to 3 - 10 day visits (my kids are kind of young and a month straight is a long time). He promises that he can take vacation and actually spend that time with them, blah, blah, blah. He only took one week off during that time- (eye roll, like I didn't see that coming). Whatever, that's why I pay for daycare.

I was talking to DH about how I am already bummed out about Thanksgiving. My family and I aren't on the best of terms right now because they hate DH. This year is also my bio's year to go to their dad's house. So, the thought of Thanksgiving just kind of is making me sad.