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Just as I thought... the fall to reality has been hard. Skids have been back a week and my nerves are already shot
Skids got back from their two months away last Tuesday. I really did try to come back at this with a new positive attitude. I really did. But these kids have already beaten that hope out of me.
Here's a quick run down of my week.
Skids are back.....and dh and i have already begun our first disagreement
Apparently the skids want to spend Christmas at MILs. So of coarse because hee skids want to do it, it shall be done. Nevermind the thousands it will cost to fly us all up there at Christmas. Nevermind that mil lives in a tiny 2 bedroom ny apartment with dhs brother. Nevermind that I don't want to be traveling with an infant during flu season. Nevermind mil doesn't aknowledge my (our) two children. Nevermind that I have no leave time left after maternity leave. And he expected me to just say sure?!?
Skids come home today...and.... how to respond to my mom?
Skids come back from their summer away today. Thought they weren't coming until tomorrow, but its today. I have a tightness in my chest right now knowing they will be there when I get home from work. Trying to stay positive, but its really hard.
Also, SS has been with my mom the past week. She got him tickets to come see her as his birthday present this year. So she skypes me last night to give me his returning flight info. SS was so hyper and unfocused, and figgity..... It just brought it all flooding back why I get to frustrated and annoyed with how behavior.
oh god...
Dh just informed me that he has decided unilaterally to take ss10 off his adhd meds. FML
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Im an egg.... striving to be a coffee bean
Saw this in an old blog and it got me thinking. When the skids come back next week I am going to really try to start off fresh and try to make the best of things. I'm just an egg striving to be a coffee bean...
Carrots, Eggs & Coffee
A carrot, an egg, and a cup of coffee...You will never look at a cup of coffee the same way again.
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where are all the regulars?
Did we lose another group of regulars during my baby hiatus? Some familiar faces seem to be missing....
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Hey everyone, been gone a few months- just an update on me
Haven't posted since May when the new baby arrived. Two days of induced labor and bioson #2 was born weighing 9 lbs 12 oz.
So mad right now, I cant believe he is.pulling this shit NOW, of all times.
We are schedualed for induction tomorrow morning at 530 am. The plan this entire time has been that the skids go to school/daycare and BS comes with us to watch his brother being born. He's been completely on board with this plan since day one.
So I go to bed early and he come in half an hour ago (1230 at night) to tell me that he wants to send BS to daycare tomorrow. I say that I want him there. He then throws down the ultimatum that either BS goes to daycare or he's bringing all three kids into the delivery room. Then he rolls over and went to sleep.
Damn these hormones.... or damn you dh.....not sure which
I have Dh's car today, and he has my van. Went out to pick up lunch and noticed a pile of bs3's school art work on the floor. There was one in there that had "BS's Dancing Feet" written on the top.
They must have dipped his feet in paint and let him dance over the paper. It was the cutest thing I've ever seen. I literally started crying over it sitting in the super market parking lot. He's getting so big and I miss so much while I'm at work and he's at daycare.
DH's laziness won after all- update to yesterdays birthday blog
Here's yesterdays blog -
http://www.steptalk.org/node/66832
Well, I shouldn't have worried. His laziness won yet again. He never went out to buy any presents..... Never even made it so far as checking the bank account to see how much money he had. All he did was pick her up a cake on the way home from getting the kids at daycare.