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Update to blog about me not buying SD birthday presents this year
Here is the original blog-
http://www.steptalk.org/node/65085
So today is SD's 9th birthday. Up til now Dh hasn't mentioned it at all so I figured that we were still on the same page. Just got a call from him, he's off today and just some up.
Asked if I was getting SD a cake..... I said no, that he was off so I figured he could handle that.
Ok, fine I guess I can do that. Did you seriously not get her any gifts for her birthday?
Nope, I told you I wasn't.
I F-ing HATE liars!....or..... Cant I ever have a good day?
Thought today was going to be a stress free day. The skids are at the in laws for church today. But I can never get away from it.
Not sure how to really process this...
SS10 had an appt with the psychologist this morning, Dh was taking him. Been calling Dh all morning to find out how it went and he hasn't been returning me calls or texts. Finally called me back a few minutes ago.
Said he had a really good talk with the Dr.. I ask what about, assuming about SS's behavior/ med change.
He says.... About you, and how you don't love the kids.
Silence
He says its normal though, for that animosity to be there, even when a step parent has been there from the begining that there always animosty there.
Silence
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wth is it going to take to get through to ss10?
Just got a call from Dh. SS once again flat out refused to do his homework at the daycare during homework time. no matter what they say or do, he just argues and flat out refuses to do it..... Because he wants to go play.
This kid seems to have zero concept of consiquences until it is way too late. He was happy as a clam until ten minutes before Dh get there..... Then he wanted to do his homework. After two hours of running his mouth at the daycare workers. Now of coarse he's damn near in tears cause he knows he's in trouble but at the time, no worries at all.
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SS would have been doomed to failure with bm#1 and So tired of SD's crap
Last week we heard from bm#1 for the first time since Feb. Dh meets her at a McDonalds after ss's therapist appt, as bm said she was in the area for a job interview. She shows up (according to Dh, I wasn't there) looking an absolute mess. Crazy messy hair, old ass tshirts, and dirty jeans. So can pretty much guarentee she didn't get whatever job she was interviewing for, if there even was an interview. But she also shows up with her two older sons, 16 and 19, the 19 yr olds Gf, and her 18 month old son (thankfully not the 19yr old kid biologically). All in a three seat pick up truck.
Always have to compromise because of the kids....
I took off Thursday from work because it is BS's third birthday. I wanted to spend the day with him and just have some good mommy-son time.
I also took the day off so that I can take BS into school so he can have cake and icecream with all his friends and play some party games. I mentioned it to the daycare director weeks ago and she said that the kids would be super excited about it.
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My baby is growing up.....
BS turns three on Thursday. It's a good thing I am having another baby, or I would be pretty sad over him growing up so fast.
He has been on a bit of a tangent for a few days that he wants to have the training wheels off of his bike. Not sure what brought it on, but he is quite insistant. I figured that he would just kind of forget about it, but he was in tears last night, asking me to take the twoittle wheels off so his bike will only have two wheels.
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OT- Baby update and Skid report card day
Not skid related, but wanted to share. Had my 36 wk ultrasound today and baby boy currently weighs 7lbs 9oz..... Which would put him at 9-10 lbs if we make it to 40 weeks. His head circumference is 5 weeks ahead. I had them look back in my chart for when I had my first BS, and their measurements are identical! So ill soon have another big strong smarty-pants boy! He's head down already and ready to go.
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SD9 will no longer be getting any birthday gifts from me this year.
Last night at bedtime ss10 comes to me, fighting back tears (he cries constantly over the littlest things). He says that he knows that he should have come to me sooner, but that Sd9 ruined xmas, his birthday, and Easter for him. He goes on to explain that SD has been snooping through our room to find the gifts and has been telling him everything that he will be getting, even though he's asked her to stop telling him. I thank him for letting me know and tell him that daddy and I will handle it.
So apparently its ok for DH to be annoyed with the skid's behavior, but not me.
I have the skids and BS by myself all weekend, every weekend because Dh works. Their behavior is unbelievably frustrating and draining. So whenever Dh calls on his breaks he can hear it in my voice. I never complain about the skids, but if he asks hoe they are behaving I will tell him. He always just blows it off, never speaks to them, and belittles my frustration (which is why I stopped volunteering the info). Then inevitably when he calls me on the way home from work I get the "you hate my kids" crap, that I have no patience for them, they are just kids blah blah blah.