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SD19 using me as excuse

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Submitted by prayerhelps on Wed, 01/20/2010 - 9:56am

not to visit DH here at home. Evidently, she feels some vibe w/me. WHAT??? Last time she was here, on NY's eve, I spent the whole evening playing games w/her, DH and nephew after my little ones went to bed.

After talking to therapist/friend, I had DH take "Five Love Languages" to SD and ask her to read the 5 love languages and let us know which one she is (I have everyone else pegged in my family, but her). Now she won't even read it. I guess I cannot meet her needs.

Crazy is Crazy, I always say.

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Submitted by prayerhelps on Thu, 01/14/2010 - 3:19pm

BPD BM sends lovely email about SD16 3/4 and her long visitation this WE. Demands DH to make sure SD has everything she needs for the WE. WHAT? This SD has been doing changeover's for over 10 years now. This SD packs herself everytime, for over past 5 years. This SD is not a child anymore---how IDIOTIC is this? But, of course, this is coming from a 40yr old woman who still calls her Parents Mommy and Daddy, and those same BGP REFUSE to let SD's pack for any summer trips for themselves. PLEASE!!!!.

Age of consent

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Submitted by prayerhelps on Fri, 12/18/2009 - 3:26pm

Anybody know laws anywhere on whether a 16YO can/cannot make decisions in regard to medicine/medical help, etc...

Case---BM thinks SD16.5 should be taken to get the Swine Flu shot/Flu shot. Our family has never gotten those shots, and have never had any problems--no other health concerns. DH asked SD if she would like to go get one, she said "no way, I ain't getting no shot." Yet BM thinks DH should force her to?????

Blog for BM's

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Submitted by prayerhelps on Fri, 12/18/2009 - 1:32pm

Does anyone know of any Blog support groups for the BM, especially the NCP BM who only gets visitation? Just wondering what kind of stuff they post up there, what their biggest issues are.

Thanks

Accused of lying, usually accuser is liar

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Submitted by prayerhelps on Tue, 12/15/2009 - 10:55am

Seeing this true all over again. Just like the person who suspects who are cheating on them to the point of paranoia is usually the one who is cheating.

BM is now claiming EVERYTHING DH says in email is a LIE. Of course, we see that it is actually because DH has set up with CSE to go through them for payments, rather than deal w/BM--Judge even stated CS to go through CSE, but now somehow DH fault, and now he lies about everything. TYPICAL BPD!!!!

Peace and Quiet is Over

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Submitted by prayerhelps on Fri, 12/11/2009 - 9:58am

The BM has emerged again. Shame---DH has not taken a Pepcid for over 2 weeks (been three weeks since an email and phone calls been short and sweet)---sex has gotten mega great again due to less stress this woman can cause both of us. I know, I know---shouldn't let someone else effect us so much--we try not to, but unfortunately her ugly head rearing does stress us out.

Things settling down

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Submitted by prayerhelps on Fri, 12/04/2009 - 2:13pm

Haven't had any nastiness from BM. SD16.5 is settling back into our routine, even got a little extra time as BM was sick on her last full weekend so cancelled, then only had 1 day over Thanksgiving. Been nice. SD still shows butt now and then, but not nearly as bad. Has moments where she will even admit that DH is only one ever to be there for her, only one she can rely on.

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