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Change is good right?
Some big changes are coming to our 'family' and I am both nervous and excited about it. SO I just need to vent about my feeling - feel free to comment.
What is changing:
FDH and I are getting married in 7 weeks!
FDH and I want to start trying for a baby in Nov.
SS5 and SS7 are going to have to share a room (to make room for the baby).
How I feel about those changes:
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Dear BM, why lie to us?
She lies about the dumbest stuff. It drives me nuts. The latest lie got Chubby Hubby involved.
SS7 told us awhile back that his grandpa got him a 4-wheeler for christmas. Then he told us last week that BM said that he couldn't ride it until he was 18.
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SKid is going to be 'that' kid at school
SS7 will be that kid that gets picked on at school. I warned FDH about it this week. He starts 2nd grade in 2 weeks (I can't wait). But unless something changes I told FDH that as he gets into higher grades he will be picked on in school.
Why do I say that?
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Appearances - BM is all about it
But failed to keep up the appearance of being the prefect mom, wife and family yesterday. We had a meeting with SS7's Therapist yesterday and the step-parents were 'encouraged' to attend by the Therapist. So I went and I planned to just sit there and answer any questions that were asked of me.
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Strange phone calls... for BM. Help me make sense.
Seems lately calls to the house by people looking for BM have increased, even stranger is they are calling her by her old name...FDH's last name.
I get that I live in a house once occupied by BM when she was married to FDH - but she moved out over 3 years ago and upon the divorce she changed her name back to her maiden name (it says in the divorce that she changed it) and has since gotten married and changed it again.
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She tried to buy his love
but ran out of money!
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I take back what I said about BM's interest in Therapy
Apparently she does have an interest. FDH has been trying to get a hold of the Therapist to see how it went with SS7 for days, she finally called us today and left a message for FDh stating that she talks to BM about it and thought BM would have told him what she said.
She went on to say that everything went well SS7 was very easy to talk and there seems to be the biggest issue with bed time and there were some difference between households. but the message got cut off at, he remembers some stuff from before...
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O/T Wedding invatations and family drama
We sent out our Wedding invitations last week and are awaiting the fall out for not inviting FDH's Aunt and her drama party. Mind you this was not my choice but FDH's, though I am sure I will be blamed.
Here is the back story.
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I still find BM's lack of interest shocking
And I sort of wonder how long it will be before the Therapist takes note of BM's lack of interst/ concern in SS7's Behavoral Therapy. So far BM has gone to one parent meeting and stated only a few concerns. FDH (and I) have many worries, to the point where the Therapist asked us why we seem to have more issues than BM. So we are taking detailed notes this week of Ss7 and what we see/ do. So far it's 4 typed pages! We are going to give it to Therapist so she can explain to us why we are having so many issues/concerns.
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You tell me... what the problems is.
This may be wrong but that is what I feel like asking the Therapist. Last week I took SS7 to his first session and during that session the Therapist asked me, "You and FDH seem to be having the most trouble, why do you think that is?" I thought about it and I told her what we seem to be doing when SS7 has these 'Freak outs' (that is what he calls them). And I think she knew that I wanted to say more but couldn't in front of SS7 (who tells his mom everything) so the Therapist invited me to the next parent meeting.
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