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Change is good right?

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Some big changes are coming to our 'family' and I am both nervous and excited about it. SO I just need to vent about my feeling - feel free to comment. Smile

What is changing:
FDH and I are getting married in 7 weeks!
FDH and I want to start trying for a baby in Nov.
SS5 and SS7 are going to have to share a room (to make room for the baby).

How I feel about those changes:

Strange phone calls... for BM. Help me make sense.

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Seems lately calls to the house by people looking for BM have increased, even stranger is they are calling her by her old name...FDH's last name.

I get that I live in a house once occupied by BM when she was married to FDH - but she moved out over 3 years ago and upon the divorce she changed her name back to her maiden name (it says in the divorce that she changed it) and has since gotten married and changed it again.

I take back what I said about BM's interest in Therapy

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Apparently she does have an interest. FDH has been trying to get a hold of the Therapist to see how it went with SS7 for days, she finally called us today and left a message for FDh stating that she talks to BM about it and thought BM would have told him what she said.

She went on to say that everything went well SS7 was very easy to talk and there seems to be the biggest issue with bed time and there were some difference between households. but the message got cut off at, he remembers some stuff from before...

I still find BM's lack of interest shocking

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And I sort of wonder how long it will be before the Therapist takes note of BM's lack of interst/ concern in SS7's Behavoral Therapy. So far BM has gone to one parent meeting and stated only a few concerns. FDH (and I) have many worries, to the point where the Therapist asked us why we seem to have more issues than BM. So we are taking detailed notes this week of Ss7 and what we see/ do. So far it's 4 typed pages! We are going to give it to Therapist so she can explain to us why we are having so many issues/concerns.

You tell me... what the problems is.

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This may be wrong but that is what I feel like asking the Therapist. Last week I took SS7 to his first session and during that session the Therapist asked me, "You and FDH seem to be having the most trouble, why do you think that is?" I thought about it and I told her what we seem to be doing when SS7 has these 'Freak outs' (that is what he calls them). And I think she knew that I wanted to say more but couldn't in front of SS7 (who tells his mom everything) so the Therapist invited me to the next parent meeting.

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