Ok for those who have read my blogs you know it's usually OSD that I have the issue with after they return from BMs. Not this time! It's SD7 who told me this morning I'm "mean" all because I refuse to kiss her ass. When they are at BMs SD7 can do no wrong. She gets away with everything. Lying stealing whatever you name it SD7 gets away with it and Sd11 gets blamed. (SD11 can be in another place and STILL get blamed) well today SD7 decided to start throwing shit all over her room and tried blaming SD11. I called BS because SD11 was outside the entire time.

Thursday is when we pick the SDs up from their month long visit from BM. 1) I am Glad that the SDs will be back in a stable environment don't get me wrong there. What I am dreading is having to re-train them. We have two weeks before school starts. That's two long weeks that DH and I have to break the SDs from eating out ALL the time. Get them back on a NORMAL sleep schedule (BM keeps them up ALL night to accommodate her and so they don't "bother her" not that she can hear them anyway) get SD7 broke of the "carry me", "I CAN'T" and "baby me" bs.

For a MONTH! A glorious, whine free MONTH! Granted I miss SD7 already like I said she's the sweetie. SD11 not so much. On the other hand I despise talking to BM. For many reasons. Mainly because she's dumb as rocks. Well talking AT BM anyway. Seeing as how she's deaf DH has to play interperter as my ASL is very basic (I can ask simple questions, and cuss her out and that's about it. Like I said not up to speed with DH yet) this woman is just dumb! She picked the kids up SD11 was in the front seat (something DH and I do NOT allow in our vehicles) and NO ONE was wearing a seat belt.

Ok so the CURRENT co states that "non custodial parent (BM in this case) will have ONE long weekend per month, and three weeks during summer break. Holidays will be as follows BM gets mothers day and her birthday and father gets fathers day and his birthday. Christmas, thanksgiving, fourth of July, and memorial and labor days will alternate PERYEAR. IE BM gets thanksgiving fourth and labor day on ODD numbered years and father gets them even numbered years.