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*sigh* Irritation
Well BM (who hasn't seen the kids in a year save for 2 supervised, 3 hour visits. And STILL hasn't done a damn thing she was ordered to do by the judge) had the kids over Christmas break. DH and I picked the kids up friday, and as soon as they got in the car DH and I suspectect that it had been ALL about sd7 the entire time. Yesterday and today are re enforcing that thought. BM does EVERYTHING for SD 7 from carrying her around ALL the time to simple things like, feeding her and totally ignores SD 10. Yesterday, SD 7 bumped her head.
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O/T a little holiday fun
Okay we all know the standard Christmas carols, here are a few NEW titles
Deck the BM with mounds of papers fa la la la la
Lawyers we have heard on high, counting up all their dough
His three jerks from wonderland
O Holy Crap, this witch is at it again
And finally,
Good King DoNoWrong!
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Attitude II
I'm sick of it! SD10 has been NOTHING but hateful snotty and bitchy the last two weeks. To everyone teachers her dad her sister everyone! DH and I are pretty much getting calls from the school on almost a daily basis. Monday SD10 was in one of her "I'm gonna play dumb and throw a fit and everyone will do for me" snits and DH popped her on the butt and you'd have thought someone ripped her hand off.
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For those standing behind the preverbal fan...........
Yup, the shit hit the fan and me without my rain coat. So Stay Puff had ordered visitation Monday and Tuesday nights, and had promised (like she always does) to get the kids build a bear, well she didn't and Tuesday night sd7 had a meltdown about everything because stay puff lied to her yet again. Okay, get her calmed down, move onto Wednesday night. SD 10 comes home from school and tells me about something that happened in PE I listen and think "okay, I'll speak to the teacher tomorrow" so today, (Thursday) I pop into skids school to speak to the PE teacher.
I really shouldn't be pissed but...........
Once again Stay Puff (BM) has come through with her winning personality of lying manulipitive bullshit! The kids had an ordered visit with her tonight and last night. Well last night Stay Puff promised them that she would take them to build a bear. So tonight after the visit, the kids come back with........ You guessed it! Nothing! Stay Puff "forgot" about it. Ha! Bullshit! She also told the kids that DH and I were "keeping her from them and SHE was the best parent" really? Then why in the fuck have you NOT bothered to see the kids but 5 times in the last 2 years?!
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Waiting
For the fallout from the SDs after they get back from the ordered visit with stay puff (BMs new nick name because she has packed on the pounds and looks like she has eaten the stay puff man from ghostbusters) I have spent my day picking up school records, talking to the phone company and possible witnesses for the LCM and evidentiary hearings that are coming up. Right now I just want Stay Puff to crawl back to her hovel and stay there. I want this done and over with. Guess I can add her to my reasons for hating this time of year.
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Shitty day!
DH had court this afternoon and the stupid ass BM LIED to the judge! Our atty ripped into that pretty quick, and stated that BM has had NO contact with thekids. BMs excuse? We were denying her contact and she had mad "several phone calls" I called bullshit on that one and whipped out the phone records. The judge looked at me lime I was an idiot and told me to "sit down" so I did and managed to keep my mouth shut for the rest of the hearing.
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Pretty good weekend
This weekend wasn't that bad. The SDs and I made cookies tonight, and DH pretty much left us to ourselves. I am trying to keep calm, as DH and I have to be back in court tomorrow because the BM has decided to be her usual bitchy self. Our atty says we've got a good case, and things look good for us, but I am still nervous. I have been "mom" to these 2 girls for the last 2 years while BM has been here when it suited her. The oldest SD said that she didn't want to see BM "ever again". I'll let you know how court went tomorrow.
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O/T stress relief
So with all the crap that us steps go through, how do YOU release your stress? My DH recently bought an Xbox and I wasn't that interested in the games, mostly shoot em up first person war games until last night when he talked me into playing Mortal Kombat with him. Well after beating his ass he gave up. This morning I had a phone call with our atty and afterwards thought "hmmm" so I plugged in the game and trust me, I feel SOOOO much better! I just envision the opoinant as the BM! Totally made my day!
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Kniving dumbs@€ crap
SOOOO the BM KNEW she was to call our "supervisor" for a visit IF she wanted one, who does she call? DH! And wanted to move the visit to Sunday instead of Saturday. DH told her "no the supervisor can't do it that day" BMs response? "but I MISS THEM!" really? You don't bother to call or show up for a Fucking YEAR and all of a sudden decide you "miss" them? DH called me and said "I am not putting the kids through that again" this is NOT a court ordered visit, and she STILL has not provided ANY info that she was ordered to provide! How freaking dumb does she think we are?
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