I have finally made it clear to dh that I CANNOT/will not support 7 people on my own income by myself, and things are quickly starting to unravel-and our marriage is now in jeopardy. I told him that my first reaction to sd being pg was that she has 6 months to get out and I NEED to stand by that.

so i told dh yesterday that i really feel like his vows to me are dying. i told him the minute sd walked in the door back in august he has pretty much been telling me to deal with it from sd24 being pg to telling me despite my intuition he and sd would not walk dd to or from bus stop and to house cleaning. i told him the only reason i haven't asked for maritial counseling is because it's almost christmas but that becasue the whole "dd being manhandled" could've been avoided if i was REALLY heard the way a wife should be.

besides having bookos of things to do with sd13 now 14 and school, and programs this weekend SUCKED. to start with, saturday morning the kids were eating breakfast, sd24 was still "in bed" dh told the kids (which i didn't hear this part) that they could only have 1 toaster strudel. the kids asked me for another one-i told them yes, sd24 poked her head out of her bedroom "please dont' eat all the toaster strudels guys there's only x in there"i about lost it but instead went about my day..........i KNOW SD24 sat around all day (this comes in later)

ok so i e-mailed dh, told him that HE needs to set his foot down with sd, this is my way of disegaging to sd's laziness.