FDH owed backpay to BM (because during their lawyer proceedings, his told him not to pay anything at all until it was settled). We knew this would come out of his tax return this year. Big bummer, but oh well. So FDH did his taxes as early as possible and found out we were only getting about $200 back total after the $4000ish came out for the backpay.

Fast forward 5 weeks later. He gets a letter from his place of work that states that he owes $4k in backpay so they have been advised to send his work bonus directly to the state child support enforcement agency. FRICK.

Last Thursday morning it was 7:20. I'm sitting in the car with SD5 and SS3, and we're waiting for the bus for SD5 to come. I get a phone call from FDH and he goes, "BM doesn't think that SD has school today." I said, "Yes she does." He says, "Are you sure?" I say, "Yes. It's next week that she doesn't have school Thursday and Friday. Plus, there are other kids waiting for the bus."

FDH and I were talking about sex during labor because we saw a couple doing that on that new show "One Born Every Minute", and since I'm 38 weeks pregnant we were joking around about doing it in the hospital. Then he told me about BM...

(I posted this on Saturday but I am adding updates)
I blogged last week about how BM wanted us to take the skids for a few hours Saturday. Since FDH worked at both of his jobs with a break between 2 and 7 he told her we'd take them just until her mom gets off of work in the afternoon. She said she'd drop them off at 1 at our house.