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SSs TOTALLY confuse, disturb and dumbfound me..OH you must be SOOOOO proud!.....

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Submitted by stressedstep on Thu, 11/20/2014 - 3:13am

Yesterday, OHs new BFF....SS17....yup, you read right, the little sh*t that caused so much grief.......is now BFF with his daddio....well Christmas IS coming after all.....plus, apparently, SS17 gets his keys for his new apartment today!...so we know whats coming next hey.....well, he can f*ck right off...then I asked about SS19s flat.....So here's how the convo went:

The poxy room saga...again.....

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Submitted by stressedstep on Mon, 11/17/2014 - 4:37am

So this weekend, its been harrowing to say the least what with whats happened with SS17 (who is alive and ok)......OH and I bought babies cot bed on Saturday...we were meant to be getting the bunk beds, but that didnt happen either.....although, with events, I can kinda understand the slackness of this weekend....however....

that feeling of suddenly realising what the hell you got involved in!

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Submitted by stressedstep on Sat, 11/15/2014 - 3:42am

I love my other half, I genuinely do. His family on the whole are nice, hardworking people who generallyIhave manners and respect and morals. birth mom, her family lack all of the about and more. my family and my ex are the same as other half

Told OH...NO MORE!!!

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Submitted by stressedstep on Thu, 11/13/2014 - 5:26am

OH was on nights last night, but popped home mid shift for something quick to eat......

Told him that as money is kept separate, Im not paying out for the SKids anymore, its his job......I had the normal "I never have money" routine from him, so told him to manage money better.....now, as from tomorrows payday.....I have his wages!! :jawdrop:

No, its OK BM...we will pay for it, god forbid you should use the MAINTENANCE YOUR paid to ACTUALLY PAY for YOUR child!

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Submitted by stressedstep on Wed, 11/12/2014 - 3:55am

Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr!!

So last night, OH is on his way to collect SD7 fro tea, BM calls OH;

BM "Hi OH, just wondering, do you happen to have a superhero outfit at yours and stressedsteps? SD7 has to dress up for charity this Friday?" Now, its 3 days away this dress up,

OH "Erm, no, dont think so.....she has disney princess stuff but thats that"

BM "OH, well she needs something by Friday OH, and princess isnt really a hero"

And thats it.....OH decides to try the disney princess outfit on so calls me and says;

Is it possible that OH feels he is losing his closeness in losing the room!?

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Submitted by stressedstep on Mon, 11/10/2014 - 8:01am

OK, I know a few have been following my blogs, but after replying to some comments something occurred to me regarding the room change and the moving of SD7s belongings!!........

Is it possible that OH is actually feeling sorry for himself, rather than feeling sorry for SD7...maybe looking for issues with SD7 that are not there?

Is it possible that he feels that although the change has to and will happen, that in SD7 not having her own room, that he feels more distanced from her than he does now?

OMG..OH ACTUALLY thought of me OVER SD7!!!

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Submitted by stressedstep on Thu, 11/06/2014 - 4:18am

:jawdrop:

I know right!!

I blogged the other day that I was waiting on the guilt trip regarding OH working all weekend and not seeing SD7. I naturally assumed that she would be left with me, and Id be asked after the fact....BUT wait.....no way....did I just hear what I thought I did!?

OH informs me yesterday that he has made.....ALTERNATIVE ARRANGEMENTS FOR SD7!!! :jawdrop:

I was actually shocked, and it came across that I was.....so it started like this;

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