I just learned last night that we have SS from today through Tuesday when their mom gets off work. It's our holiday so I knew we had them through Monday, but had no idea about Tuesday. My daycare lady was off this week & will only be back on Wed so I had to take vacation on Tues, Thurs BS is going to my coworkers house ( he is friends with her kids & she has a girl that comes to her house ) and Friday DH is taking off. I could have just paid the kids again & saved my vacation day.

SS 11 plays baseball. BM is an assistant coach for his team this year. Their team has not won a single game all season & pretty much suck. None of the kids are very good. Because all 3 kids are playing ball & someone needs to be home to get work done I haven't been at any of his games and only to a couple of ss13's. DH hasn't been to that many because he has been taking SS13 to his or coaching BS t ball with me.

Does anyone elses spouse guilt them or just expect that they attend everything. Before I had our son I did go to most of the kids stuff, but as DS almost 4 has gotten older & more difficult to sit still for longe periods of time I have quit going this last year. DH always guilts me. I really think SS11 could care less if I came or not ( he has gotten so aloof & odd over this last year ) and to be honest I just don't want to spend what little free time I have going to a badn concert.

DH gets upset when I tell him, you may need to be there but I don't.

Why is it always my fault. Tonight dh spent the entire evening that the kids were here fighting with me about vacation. He is bound and determined we are taking a vaacpatiin whether we can afgord one or not. Because he is lazy and didn't submit his work mileage even though I begged him weekly to do it, he cost us around a grand, which we were going to use. He is pissed at me at me because I won,t depleat or savings to take the kids on vacattion. So that the kids could know what an evil bitch I am he faught all through dinner with me infront of my poor skids and bs.