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Don't ask me for advice anymore DH...

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Submitted by tankh21 on Wed, 07/05/2017 - 8:15am

So the skids finally left on Friday 6/30 and BM was supposed to pick them up at 6 pm however she texted DH that she would be an hour early picking them up and DH told her no he doesn't get home until 5:30 pm so of course they start arguing because she throws the well I let you pick them up crap 10 minutes early when you come pick them up and the CO states that you pick them up at 6:00 pm not any minute before. So once again this is a throw crap in your face pissing contest between them. I told DH you will never learn will you?

Finally...

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Submitted by tankh21 on Fri, 06/30/2017 - 8:00am

So BM comes and picks up the skids today and they are with her for the rest of their summer vacation. My house will finally be back in one piece and I can clean it without having kids around. Now we go back to EOW until school start again then it's every Thursday night, EOW and holidays. I am so glad this month is over. I am going to get a pedicure, get a wax and relax and unwind this weekend. What is everyone else doing for 4th of July weekend? I have the next 4 days off since the military considers Monday a family day and Tuesday is a holiday....

DH finally stood up for me...

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Submitted by tankh21 on Thu, 06/29/2017 - 7:44am

So yesterday when I walked into the front door the first thing that came out of YSS's mouth was "Could I be more quiet when I leave for work in the morning because I woke him up when I left yesterday?" I just told him that he will have to get over it. No hello just telling me that crap when I just got off of work. I told DH that he needs to talk to his kid because I don't want to hear a 10 year old telling me to be more quiet in my own house because I woke him up on his summer vacation. He falls asleep on the couch when he should be sleeping in his own room in the first place.

The countdown has begun...

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Submitted by tankh21 on Wed, 06/28/2017 - 7:21am

So the countdown has begun when the skids leave and go back to BM's house then it goes back to EOW. I think about if we got these kids full time DH and I would have to have a serious discussion about the household rules but, BM will never let go of her precious babies so that probably won't happen. I think the youngest might want to live with his dad when he's 15 or 16 so I dread that but, we will see what happens. This weekend I am going to relax in my nice quiet house. Am I a bad person for being happy that my skids are going back to BM's?

Human Garbage at it's best...

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Submitted by tankh21 on Mon, 06/26/2017 - 9:49am

So DH got a FedEx letter from BM stating that he needs to provide a notarized travel letter for each one kid stating that she can take them the Mexico. Later that day she asked him what day the kids come home? He told her Friday June 30th. This is actually supposed to be DH's weekend but per the CO BM is designated one weekend with the kids so she chose this coming up weekend in a certified letter she sent DH last month. Does she just not remember and ask DH everything?

I forgot this funny part of last night...

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Submitted by tankh21 on Thu, 06/22/2017 - 9:05am

Ok I left this out in my this morning's blog because I was more frustrated about what is going on with DH. So I hear OSS talking on speaker phone with BM around 9:30 pm last night. Then all of the sudden he asks DH if we were in BM's house yesterday because there was some stuff missing and moved around upstairs in her house. We were both dumbfounded. Then I heard OSS on the phone with her a few more times and she sounded manic. I think that she is either just plain crazy or she is making this crap up. This actually happened and I was laughing.

Just done...

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Submitted by tankh21 on Thu, 06/22/2017 - 8:21am

I almost left last night because I told DH that he doesn't care about my feelings and that he put his kids before our marriage. He said that is not it he said that since he has partial custody of his kids that he is afraid if he discipline YSS that he is afraid that BM will try to take him back to court for abuse and then he will never get to see his kids. So I have a choice I can either stay and deal with all of this stuff or leave and never look back. I love my DH and I want my marriage for work.

BM needs to butt out....

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Submitted by tankh21 on Wed, 06/21/2017 - 7:55am

BM is at it again...Her precious little snowflakes absolutely cannot survive without her guidance or wisdom. LOL OSS was sneezing and coughing and I think it was all related to allergies so DH gave him an allergy pill but he called mommy to see what mommy thought of course and she texted my DH and told that that he needed to take OSS to the doctor. Text got ignored LOL. Then the next day YSS sent her a picture of the bottom of his foot what looked like to be a wart and that he said to me that he has had for awhile again BM said YSS needs to go the doctor.

It is never going to end even after this kid turns 18.

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Submitted by tankh21 on Mon, 06/19/2017 - 7:29am

So I figure all of this cluster f*** of bulls*** is going to continue through it's vicious cycle because YSS just doesn't give a rat's a** about anyone but himself and what he wants. It is the same thing every day he picks on his brother and hits him or whatever. This time we were at my dad's house for a barbeque and I go inside and YSS has OSS backed up into a corner hitting him so I tell DH to go inside and take care of it. Well we ended up leaving because DH was sitting in the middle of both kids so once again YSS ended up manipulating DH and getting his way once again.

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