So after an argument this morning about the skids once again. DH finally admitted that his kids disrespect all adults except for him and that he is fine with that because he doesn't care what other people think. I told him that his kids are going to suffer as well and he just doesn't want to see that. The skids disrespect DH as well so I have no idea why he thinks that they resect him. I am so tired of arguing trying to make DH see my side and it has come to the point where I am contemplating on leaving because of this.

So DH and I had a discussion about how YSS is trying to "play the system" which is what DH calls it. YSS will keep on asking for things that he wants several times even after he get told no and it is quite annoying.

I know kids do not understand how the real world works yet and that money doesn't grow on trees but he is really persistent on getting his way because he is used to getting it with BM I guess and think that he can do it with DH and I as well.

BM told OSS if she gets divorced to her DH then she is moving back to Washington of course he told me that and not his father. DH said that he would move back to Washington if the lost in court and they let BM move to be with his kids. I told him that I am not moving to Washington just for that. He said that I was selfish and that I was pretty much asking him to choose between his kids and me. I just don't see it that way. OSS is a teenager and YSS is almost a teenager it would make a different if they were younger but that is not the case. Am I wrong to feel this way?

BM is asking about the skids insurance cards again...The skids are on my insurance and it is through my work. The insurance card has my name on it but, apparently that isn't good enough for BM. Sorry BM you will just have to deal with it because my work isn't going to give me insurance cards with the skids names on them. My DH's insurance card has my name on it as well. She is just being herself so here we go again. It is only going to get worse since school has started today.