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What SD said... NEED ADVICE PLEASE!

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Submitted by youbetheparent on Sat, 03/17/2012 - 2:40pm

So I guess the whole time SD was with BM, BM was feeding her lines such as "your father kept moving just so I could not find you" and "your father BEAT ME WITH AN IRON when we were together" just to name a few.

Not sure what to do from here... she has to go back for 1/2 the summer, but she should not be exposed to these types of lies (not to mention they are in direct contempt of the CO).

Can we file something with the courts without and attny (no extra $$$$ right now) because of this?

3am phone calles... "I'm going to the court house first thing in the morning"

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Submitted by youbetheparent on Fri, 03/16/2012 - 12:12pm

*Sigh*

3am DH's phone rings. BM called b/c she dropped SD at the airport, and though this was an appropriate time to let him know how "disrespected" she is because SD calls me mom and calls her by her first name. She is going to go file a motion to FORCE SD to call her mom. Well if she had taken any interest in SD for the last 7 years, SD would know her as mom. As it stands she is a stranger than decided to shake up our lives and cause chaos.

DH's reply: "You really have issues. Good night" and hangs up the phone.

FML

OMG! (VENT AND LANGUAGE)

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Submitted by youbetheparent on Sat, 03/10/2012 - 10:33pm

"The court didn't order me to do anything, and this is my time" was the VM that was left on DH's phone, after he has called to check on SD . This is SD's first unsupervised visit with a woman that has shown no interest in her in 7 years. She is refusing to let DH talk to her. More and more I am thinking this is less about SD and more about her having power to hurt DH. I fucking hate the selfishness of this stupid cunt (yes, that is what she is!).

well, her flight has landed... do you think the bitch could call? NOPE!

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Submitted by youbetheparent on Sat, 03/10/2012 - 7:36am

Well, SD called when she landed in FLA. BM was supposed to meet her at the gate. (This is will be her first unsupervised visitation in 7 years). SD text DH to say that BM got her, but do you think the adult in the situation could call just to let him know their daughter was safe? She is 11 and just flew 12 hours on her own. How about a little common courtesy?????

Hopefully that message really was from SD b/c now her phone is off. *sigh*

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