Is knocking SD9 on her A** Dissengaging?

:? So dissengaging still pissing her off, she doesn't know which way to go so she is going one step in front of me so I will yell at her.

She jumps in front of me going down steps when she knows i am going down to get coffee and puts her cereal bowl in front of coffee pot, spreads her legs to claim the space two days in a row and today she ran up stairs in front of me to brush her teeth before me so she would be in my way. I let her go and went down stairs and did luandry. When I heard her done brushing i went up to brush my teeth and she stood there in front of sink again, legs spread, and wouldn't look at me. So, I loudly say "Excuse me".
So basically, I have learned to restrain from so much lately but I am gonna knock her on her ass, i feel it. Any suggestions?

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OMG, that is what I totally

OMG, that is what I totally do to my teen BS's, but I know for a fact I could never do that to her because of my feelings toward her. I did that before to her and because I really just don't like the kids personality (personality disorders) I sounded so fake and my SS11 told me she told her mom i was being "sarcastic" with her. I laughed so hard that this child who doesn't have a clue and plays the dumb card continuously actually knew what sarcastic was. Thanks for the advice though.

Really? She's 9? Sounds like

Really? She's 9? Sounds like the behavior of a 4 year old.

Like the above poster said..She is trying to get a reaction out of you. Don't get angry or annoyed (in front of her) Don't let her know that anything she is doing is getting under your skin. Just smile and walk away. I know it's so much easier said than done, but after a while her silly little game will become boring because she is not getting the reaction she wants. She will just get more irritated at this fact and she will stop.