A good cry.

I usually do not cry. Not something I was allowed to do as a child, not something I saw my mom or grandmother do.

Today, I cried all the way to work. It cleared my head and helped make decisions.

We are going to a lawyer re: fair handling of bonus money.

But the cry allowed my to look at and analyze numbers, to release tension from dealing with an aging mom, kids, and work.

Try it sometimes I highly recommend it

I do not understand people....specifically BM

For years DH has been told

Skids hate coming to your house
They don't want to come
You turn everything into money (because we said no to additional findings)

SD20 moved out of BM house two weeks ago in a state that still has a law for support until 21). Dh told bm that support should ne dropped to one child effective the date of the move. She is saying effective the judges date. In addition has told the lawyer how to calculate the order which will overstated DH income tremendously.

Does anyone know if profit sharing checks can be used in child support calculations?

I thought it went off earned income.

Bm is trying to get DH signing bonus, and profit sharing as part of the support. These aren't yearly!

I was reading everyone's posts about if a child should have the right to decide they don't want to be at the other parents house.

I wonder what would happen if a child chose not to be in that parents life, if the judge then would say that parent then has no obligation to provide for you any more.

Please read here that IF the child chooses not the visiting parent.