How do you feel about BMs saying this?

I personally think that if you're single and you're a mom, it's fine to say this. People call celebrities like Bridget Moynahan, Denise Richards, etc. single moms. And while they have loads of money, I think it's accurate, because they are single.

If you disagree with bm saying she's a single mom, what else could she say instead?

Is as follows: "Dude, you're a grown man. You had sex ed classes in high school. You as a grown man ought to know that condoms aren't 100% effective, and neither is birth control. You chose to sleep with a girl you don't know/a girl you don't want to stay with. If you didn't consider that there is a possibility, however slim, that she may get pregnant, your main talent is thinking with your little brain. Don't sleep with someone if you know or feel that your relationship with them will end soon. Don't sleep with people you don't know.

I do not think they need to be held accountable for being hurt, angry, confused, disappointed and pi$$ed off when they get taken off the pedestal and "dethroned." I do think that the parents need to teach and give them healthy venting outlets and unconditional love and support to get them through it, and take full responsibility for the anguish they are causing their kids, both to themselves and to their kids.

But, (there's always a "but" in life )

This is a public site, and the Internet. Nobody's going to agree on everything.

Most of us are strangers. As with anything, when we put info out there about ourselves, or our feelings, we are opening ourselves up to the good chance of people disagreeing with us and forming opinions about us. Nobody's going to see eye to eye all the time.