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Submitted by BSgoinon on Fri, 04/01/2016 - 9:58am

Oh boy, the apple just doesn't fall far from the tree. In this case the apple hit every rotten nasty branch on the way down. But I seriously had no idea that BM learned her manipulative bullshit from her mother.

About a week ago, BM's mom started texting DH asking if she can see SS. We have no problem with this. Obviously, we arrange for SS to see her dad regularly. So why wouldn't we do that same for her mom? Well... the difference between her dad and her mom is; her dad has a f*cking BRAIN and USES IT.

Just WOW.

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Submitted by BSgoinon on Mon, 03/28/2016 - 12:22pm

Even though BM never sees SS anymore, she still has legal rights to 50/50 custody. So, typically when she decides she wants to play "mom" for a minute and see SS, we make sure it is on "her days" and we can't really say "no" if she requests on those days. We told her from the start of this that we would not be changing OUR schedules to accommodate her so don't ask to see him if it isn't her day, and don't wait until the last minute. If we don't hear from you, we will make plans and not change them for you.

Not Happenin' BM.

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Submitted by BSgoinon on Fri, 03/25/2016 - 12:37pm

BM hasn't called SS since 3/10. And that call was 2 minutes long to cancel her visitation because she didn't want to tell DH where she was taking SS. She hasn't text him since 3/14. She hasn't seen him since 3/20 and that was for 1 hour. DH and I have not heard a peep from her since then. It's been nice. }:) She has been posting crap about her dogs all over FB. She got an old friend of hers to pay to get one of her dogs out of the pound. She found her other dog (also at the pound, but was just taken there yesterday.

I need that laugh! HAHAHA Funniest sh*t that's happened all week.

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Submitted by BSgoinon on Fri, 03/18/2016 - 3:54pm

Apparently, BM didn't read DH's response last night. She went to the school to pick SS up. There is no school today. I'm sure she is flipping out. SS is at a birthday party, probably not answering his phone, DH is in a meeting. She tried calling me, but I wasn't at my desk. I did call her back, she didn't answer. Oh well.

Shit's funny.

BM Pushing her limits, and failing.

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Submitted by BSgoinon on Wed, 03/16/2016 - 11:17am

So, BM is in the process of moving out of her house and in with a man that DH has known for 20+ years. This guys is currently sober, as far as we know. But, we don't associate with him so, who really knows. BM will be "renting a room" from him. Which I am not sure how that will work, since she has no income. But whatever. BAD NEWS, this house is less than a half a mile from us. She has NEVER lived this close to us. Ever. Good news is, it won't last long. If this guy truly is recovering, then he won't put up with her crap and won't risk HIS sobriety for her.

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