dh just got 700 in from excess student loans, i have no desire to pay more than i'm required to pay to keep the elec, rent, land and home phone. with his student loan, he paid the van payment unnecessarily, got a phone that was almost 100 though we had 2 good phones sitting at the house collecting dust, paid the cell (that we can do without) and is now bitching because the internet is down and if he doesn't have that to do school work he will fail class and have to pay it all back.

my mom called me to see if i wanted to meet her my aunt, great aunt and gpa for dinner. HELL YEAH! i'm trying to spend all the time i can with my gpa because he has unopperable pancreatic cancer. so i get there early and get my name on the list so they didn't have to wait so long.

He said he was on his way to make a car pmt, then asked how much was due on cell phones. of course i told him "you need to remember, we have tax on the house over due and i cannot pay that" so we'll see what he decides to do-sounds like he plans to pay bills---i'm still leaving mainly cause he's still unemployed

so i was talking to him this weekend just to keep things somewhat similar. and he said "well i went to wal-mart to put in an application and i stopped by the lap tops and they have one for 399 with a cd dvd burner and much bigger than yours (of course i don't respond much to that conversation). mom suggested i dare him to go buy one and if he does to file an immediate seperation and then just get out what i can live without and stay there til dd finishes school.