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Sorry B*ver the clause applies to you just as much as it does DH

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Love it when HCBMs add stupid clauses to their agreements to f*ck with their ex and then get bit in the @ss by them in the long run.

Beaver INSISTED that there be clause in the event of work conflicts the other parent gets first right of refusal.  This was done because Beaver only worked 15-20 hours a week and wanted to BE SURE that Dh didn't put the kids with someone "she didn't know".  That and Beaver "ass"umed that DH would continue in a job like he had while married to her that required him to travel.  He travelled because he didn't want to be at home with her.

Bawwhahahaha...Sure B*ver file comtempt....

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Beaver just sent a message to DH wanting to pick up SD today since DH picked SD up at her request since her mom physically assaulted her.  Beaver shouldn't have to miss time with SD and if DH doesn't hand her over she will file contempt.

 

Sure..Beaver go ahead and file contempt and we will be happy to inform the court that we picked up SD at her request because you assaulted her.  That Children Services is now involved and DH was not about to turn SD back over to you after you hit, kicked, pinched and bit her.  No problem....see ya in court.

Update to B'ver and the Crazy Train and our CPS Visit sorta long

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She is still on the crazy train....all abbbbboooooorrrddddd....

On Friday evening SD asked if we could get the following from her mother's house.

Her iphone, Her chargers,Her Vans (shoes),Her airpods.

DH said, ok we will text your mom and see about getting them.  DH sends the following:

Beaver, SD would like to get the following from your house. iphone, chargers, vans and airpods.  Please le me know when you will be home and I can come pick up these items.  Thank you .

Beaver:  I won't be home till Sunday.  SD can pick them up them.

UPDATE....B*ver and the crazy train

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So, CPS will be here on Monday to interview us.  

What should we expect....

I mean not problem on the food...we have so much we could feed the neighborhood

House is usually clean...not like hospital clean but I hate clutter etc

Anything else.

At this point....all I can be thankful for is my kids are now adults.  No need to worry that this could affect my kids and or rile up the VI. 

THANK GOD.

B*ver has boarded the crazy train.

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All aboard...the crazy train has left the station.  I mean I think she has bought a lifetime ticket to ride.

Highlights from yesterdays conversation with SD..

1.  Beaver tells the kids we stalk her all the time.  We drive by her house everyday and drive by her work everyday al well.

2.  We spy on her at her house using the camera on SD's ipad/iphone.  We log into the camera and listen in to her conversations.

3.  We have installed apps on her iphone/ipad to track not only SD but Beaver as well. 

Like water under the B*ver dam so are the days of DH's life

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Fasten your seatbelts..it's going to be a bumpy ride.

Beaver as we have seen believes in the "my kids are my friiiiieeeeeenddssss" theory of parenting. I have never subscribed to that theory.  Also, between DH and I we had 4 kids.  There were more of them than there we us and there was no way I was ever letting the inmates run our asylym. 

DH, he is the dog from the movie up...you yell Squirrel and his off and running

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and he is now in the "cone of shame".  ADHD....and DH manifests in DH's talking CONSTANTLY.  I mean its none stop sometimes.  Normal people get a hint when the other person starts to respond with just "uh huh, yea..mmmhhhmm"  Not my lovely DH..he just keeps on a talkin'.  TV going...still talks.  In fact he will have the TV on, watching something on his phone and trying to talk to me.  

WTF DUDE....and he spends all day long on the phone talking to clients.  He also talks in his SLEEP.  I know it's his ADHD...but this none ADHD broad needs a break.

NTSR..not step related..but inlaw related...Do you manage the relationships with your inlaws

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In my case..nope.  I have enough of a time in managing my relationship with own family.  I think it's my Dh's responsibilty to mange the relationships with his parents/siblings etc.

Dh does not really like his parents.  He likes his sister..she is a gem.  Detests his methhead brother.  His Dad is an on/off active alcohlic and his mom is an grade A enabler.  

Another episode of how to make you kids life harder starring B*ver

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In our last episode Beaver did nothing to punish GWR for his role in the "study hall prank".  SD was not thrilled with this development but has since calmed down and accepted this as norm.

In this weeks episode  Beaver further proves how lazy she is and how little she cares about SD's comfort and/or making SD's life easier.

UPDATE- SD returns from the B*ver damn

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And....for the most part it wasn't too bad.  

Beaver was in permanent bad mood....and was pretty much yelling at anything that moved.  SD think when she goes back most of her stuff will be thrown out since she didn't clean her room to her mother's specifications.  That and Beaver refused to let her bring the ipad changer that Beaver paid for. But ok..whatevs...  That and Beaver want's to ban SD's ipad from coming to her house.  SD spends too much time on it..

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