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UPDATE....B*ver and the crazy train

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So, CPS will be here on Monday to interview us.  

What should we expect....

I mean not problem on the food...we have so much we could feed the neighborhood

House is usually clean...not like hospital clean but I hate clutter etc

Anything else.

At this point....all I can be thankful for is my kids are now adults.  No need to worry that this could affect my kids and or rile up the VI. 

THANK GOD.

B*ver has boarded the crazy train.

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All aboard...the crazy train has left the station.  I mean I think she has bought a lifetime ticket to ride.

Highlights from yesterdays conversation with SD..

1.  Beaver tells the kids we stalk her all the time.  We drive by her house everyday and drive by her work everyday al well.

2.  We spy on her at her house using the camera on SD's ipad/iphone.  We log into the camera and listen in to her conversations.

3.  We have installed apps on her iphone/ipad to track not only SD but Beaver as well. 

Like water under the B*ver dam so are the days of DH's life

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Fasten your seatbelts..it's going to be a bumpy ride.

Beaver as we have seen believes in the "my kids are my friiiiieeeeeenddssss" theory of parenting. I have never subscribed to that theory.  Also, between DH and I we had 4 kids.  There were more of them than there we us and there was no way I was ever letting the inmates run our asylym. 

DH, he is the dog from the movie up...you yell Squirrel and his off and running

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and he is now in the "cone of shame".  ADHD....and DH manifests in DH's talking CONSTANTLY.  I mean its none stop sometimes.  Normal people get a hint when the other person starts to respond with just "uh huh, yea..mmmhhhmm"  Not my lovely DH..he just keeps on a talkin'.  TV going...still talks.  In fact he will have the TV on, watching something on his phone and trying to talk to me.  

WTF DUDE....and he spends all day long on the phone talking to clients.  He also talks in his SLEEP.  I know it's his ADHD...but this none ADHD broad needs a break.

NTSR..not step related..but inlaw related...Do you manage the relationships with your inlaws

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In my case..nope.  I have enough of a time in managing my relationship with own family.  I think it's my Dh's responsibilty to mange the relationships with his parents/siblings etc.

Dh does not really like his parents.  He likes his sister..she is a gem.  Detests his methhead brother.  His Dad is an on/off active alcohlic and his mom is an grade A enabler.  

Another episode of how to make you kids life harder starring B*ver

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In our last episode Beaver did nothing to punish GWR for his role in the "study hall prank".  SD was not thrilled with this development but has since calmed down and accepted this as norm.

In this weeks episode  Beaver further proves how lazy she is and how little she cares about SD's comfort and/or making SD's life easier.

UPDATE- SD returns from the B*ver damn

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And....for the most part it wasn't too bad.  

Beaver was in permanent bad mood....and was pretty much yelling at anything that moved.  SD think when she goes back most of her stuff will be thrown out since she didn't clean her room to her mother's specifications.  That and Beaver refused to let her bring the ipad changer that Beaver paid for. But ok..whatevs...  That and Beaver want's to ban SD's ipad from coming to her house.  SD spends too much time on it..

Another oldie but goodie...the birthday party

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A post about sharing holidays reminded me of the great birthday party for GW (SS18).

Somewhere around the time that DH and Beaver finalized their divorce, GWR was about 6 at that the time and DH hadn't really shined up his spine yet in regards to Beaver and the two kids.

Beaver called one night while he watching TV and wanted to "talk".  This was before DH put his foot down and said no more calls unless someone is bleeding and needs the ER.

Chit chat...what Beaver has been doing, etc.  Dh finally asks, what does she want?

In 6 months...B*'s golden uterus money..I mean cs will drop by 60%

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Today DH received notice that because he owes $357 in arrears, the state will intercept his state tax return next year to offset it.  Good luck with that...we always owe and by January he will no longer owe arrears.  He is paying $100 per month for the arrears accrued from when GWR nope out of house to Beaver's house Feb, 2019.  Now back when this all went down...and the order was filed December, 2019 we could have easily paid the arrears in one lump sum..but yea...no. Beaver wanted this extra golden uterus money then she would get it in small increments.  

UPDATE 4 - GWR, SD and B*r...what will B*r do.....my guess is NADA and do I tell DH

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DH heard from SD over the weekend. So far everything was ok there.  SD did tell DH that Beaver said the other boy, GWR's friend who I will call Eddie Haskel here....is not allowed over to there house anymore, not even when SD is not there.

I looked at DH and asked..How long you think that will last.  Dh...about a month and then Beaver will relent since GWR will be unhappy and Beaver can't have that.  That and GWR will pull the...I'm suicidal unless I get what I want card.

Also, no mention of any punishment for GWR.....anyone shocked?  yea were weren't  either.

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