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Coincidence? I think not.

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So BF and I have been talking about BM being oddly passive aggressive at the kids' drop-offs, and we decided that this week he would ask BM to meet him in a public place for the drop off (as per the custody agreement--he's been picking them up AND dropping them off at her place because it seemed easier for her and the kids, and up until now she hadn't been a problem either). So when BF texts BM on Sunday about this she claims that she has no gas and it's just easier to drop them off at her place. BF and I both know this is pretty much bull***t.

FSS's 4th Bday and BM Naked on FB

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I feel so bad for BF. Yesterday was his son's 4th birthday and he tried to call a few times to say happy birthday, but BM wouldn't answer her phone. I guess at 4 FSS might not really remember, but it made BF sad. Plus that's just wrong. BF makes sure that the kids call their mom when they're just visiting. I know he wouldn't ignore her calls if we had them for a birthday or holiday--he would at least have the kids call her back.

Ugh, Really?

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So this weekend was kind of tiring. It wasn't a terrible weekend with the fskids, but it was draining. Last week I wasn't feeling too hot to begin with, but by the weekend I was sick, tired and irritable. I told BF that I may not be in the best of moods. Two separate issues arose this weekend that made it not so great: one is my lack of authority with the kids, and the other was BM's hypocrisy.

BM Acts Like Mommy of the Year?

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Last night BF and I were out talking on the porch and the conversation turned to the kids and BM. If anyone has seen me post before you know that I've had minimal contact with BM, and she seems to be well-intentioned or at least cooperative about the kids. Well last night BF said that he didn't understand why she was so rude to me. I didn't understand what he meant.

<Happy Dance>

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This weekend with the kids was, as my BF described it, "eventful." It was his weekend with the kids, and they were both a little sick.

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