So far since I have been with DH something negative has happened the month of December/Christmas EVERY. FRIGGIN. YEAR.

So I added an update on my previous blog "Hives" but not sure if anybody read it so I will put it on here. If you have not read my other two blogs titled "elder abuse and family problems" first, none of this will make any sense.

So yesterday I called my aunt and talked to her to see if I was missing something about this fiasco. This is what I heard. The aunt that has a health problem that she is keeping under wraps is telling everyone that this will probably be the "last holiday" we will all have together as a family.

DH has ss two to three days/evenings during the week and e/o weekend. This is not including holiday time. We had this problem with BM the last two years but dh doesn't remember. SS has a planner that he has to use every day to write down homework and what he does during class. This planner also needs to be signed by a parent every day for "participation points". BM has this fabulous habit of not doing any homework with ss during the weeks that we have him for the weekend.