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Submitted by Itwillgetbetter on Mon, 11/17/2008 - 10:48am

If my BF disiplines my son better than he does his own daughter should I take this as he is picking at my son? His daughter does not live with us she comes every other weekend and every other day he picks her up fron school. So its not like he doesnt see her. but when he does if she has a bad grade or something he doesnt deal with the situation the same way he does with my son. How do I look at this? Please some advice

What a HELL of a weekend!!!

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Submitted by Itwillgetbetter on Mon, 11/17/2008 - 8:23am

Ok this to me is kiddie crap but im going to explain it and you guys tell me what you think. This weekend my BF my son, and BF nephew went to go pick up SD at her house. When we picked her up BF nephew moved over to middle seat with no problem. SD gets in and we all go to my moms house. These are all 9 year old children. But anyway make a long story short when it was time to leave my mothers house my son was in the car and i notice SD standing next to the car waiting for BF nephew to get in so i hear BF nephew tell SD to get in the car what was she waiting for.

I dont look forward to the weekends

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Submitted by Itwillgetbetter on Sat, 11/15/2008 - 2:03pm

I dont look forward to the weekends that his daughter comes over at all because i know that he changes with my son when his daughter is around. Im even afraid to leave my son at home if i have to work because last time i did that he took a game away from my son to give it to his daughter and when my son didnt want to let her play with it he gave my son the game and told his daughter come on lets leave him alone with his game..(they are both 9) how am I suppose to feel about this???/

Please tell me If im seeing things???

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Submitted by Itwillgetbetter on Sat, 11/15/2008 - 1:32pm

I feel that my SD thinks that this is a competition between me and her. She does things to her dad that I think sometimes are not appropriate but her dad doesnt stop her right there. lt me give you some examples. For one she lays on his lap but with her head right on top of his crotch. (am I bugging?) She grabbed him from behind one day and his cell was in his lap and she was grabbing it not knowing what it was and saying whats this!!!! We went to my mothers house and we were all sitting on the sofa but she was practically sitting underneath her father. Thats how far up his ass she was.

I dont know how much longer i can deal with this!!!!

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Submitted by Itwillgetbetter on Sat, 11/15/2008 - 1:18pm

My boyfriend has been paying child support for the past year in the form of School tuition. Sometimes he does pay late but it is only by a couple of days because we get paid every two weeks and it didnt land on the date. But when he did pay he would pay a late fee along with the payment. he would then pay llunch for the next two weeks and aftercare. Well BM decides that she wants to take him back to court because she wants the money to be directly taken out of his check...

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