made my login name it will get worse. Not it will get better. Cause that is exactly how i feel. This is some bullshit I have never been in a relationship with someone that had a kid and dont know if im going to be able to put up with this for the rest of my life. And maybe the Guys that I have dated have thought the same thing who knows. But I feel that when both of you have kids in a relationship you see more... well i do. I see how my son is treated different.... UGGGGGHHHHHHH I just want to scream.

Why do we put up with what we do. I mean I know that we love the men that we are with. But is it really worth all this Frustration, aggravation, Stomach pains, headaches? I mean think about it if some of us are married already then this is going to go on for the rest of your life. And if your not married yet like me then your just headed for a lifetime of headache. Am I wrong? can someone help me look at it in a different way? I love my BF so much but I feel like the relationship is being ruined by the issues with BM AND SD.

And I still have not met DH's mother. BM is constantly over his mothers house but this should not be a reason for me to not have met his mother yet. One time we passed by DH's moms house to pick something up amd BM and DH's mother just stared me down and I stared right back. So tell me is there anyone else in this situation? What do you guys think about me not meeting DH mother yet?

Ok so im going to put the response from him regarding the Guilt parenting that he is doing that I mentioned to him and you guys tell me what you think!

"i read the letter and i agree with what it says. but i still think it will help both of us if we were to try to comunicate a little more with SD. i am not asking you try to be her mom. i am just asking for you to be like a freind. i want her to be able to go to for anything and not be afraid to ask you anything. we want to be a family we need to act like one. both of us with both kids. now if i am wrong let me know."""