No I'm not even talking about the skids or clingy disney dad

I'm talking about my employers.

So far I haven't had much of a problem (which I attribute to working remotely which I believe cuts out most of the toxic work culture) until today......

For some reason, (this usually happens to me at damn near every job) the managers wake up and decide they have a vendetta against me. 

FML!!!

This dude says he's thinking about going out of town with his family for a funeral. 
 

I encourage him to go AND take his domestic t3rrorists - I mean mini spouses - oops I mean spawns with him. 
 

He hems and haws then changes his mind and says she's staying in town. 

Idiot!

Well there goes my quiet space, peace, and freedom. 
 

I plan to go whever i know they will decline - libraries, art museums, Whole Foods, bookstores, women's clearance rack shopping (lol) etc.; discreetly drop off more item in storage, etc  

Well instead of going into a negative mood like that dude did a few weeks ago I decided to take the advice I would give him and did give him....

BE the change you want to see. 
 

The change I want to see from myself and others around me is kindness, patience, forgiveness, assertiveness, ethics, motivated, generous, faith, and more. 
 

The next 21 days I will practice being more of this. Assertiveness, motivated, and faith are at the top of my list. 
 

And see where it goes!

Well...I'm literally cleaning out the closets. 

All the toys I gifted this ungrateful dude's daughter are going (don't worry I'm tying not taking it out on those kids, she said she didn't want most of it) and selling some of it and getting my totes back. 

I'm also trying to minimize the 'junk' I'll need to haul and make some extra cash to pay off credit cards, etc. 

I'm making spreadsheets of accounts that are shared so when time comes I can easily change passwords/pull the plug.

Switching my new business over into accounts that he has no control/access to.