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SS making himeself throw up.

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Submitted by newbiestepmom25 on Sun, 06/30/2013 - 5:55pm

My mom brought over a sunday dinner of homemade fried chicken, oven baked macaroni & cheese, some greens and buttermilk biscuts yum right? well when SS10 saw the plate he immediately started complaining about how much he hates cabbage and how the chicken smells funny. After hearing this SS5 who usually loves my moms greens starts crying about how he doesn't like them. When told to eat he starts coughing as hard as he can.

BM wants to kick my ass because she is one bad B. *eyeroll*

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Submitted by newbiestepmom25 on Fri, 06/28/2013 - 3:41pm

I got a call from BM making sure I know she is "that b*tch" and I need to step back. Because calling her out on claiming our gifts are from her makes me the bad guy. I don't like the whole I'ma bad b*tch crap. Its not cute a lady should carry herself like a lady and if you are so bad you don't have to say it. There is nothing wrong with defending yourself but when you are trying to start fights is when I see a problem. When you want to curse someone out even though you know you are in the wrong just to assert your dominance is when I see a problem.

BM saying our gifts are from her

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Submitted by newbiestepmom25 on Thu, 06/27/2013 - 1:28pm

Not trying to blog hog. I just told SS10 to leave his ipad inside if he is going outside and he says " I just want to show my friend__ that my mom got me an ipad like his".I just told him mabey later. I am pissed DH and I got him that for christmas and she said it was from her.

Should I even make this an issue or just let SS keep thinking he got it from BM?

I wish you were my mom

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Submitted by newbiestepmom25 on Thu, 06/27/2013 - 12:43pm

SS10 told me that sometimes he wishes I was his mom. I can't believe he even feels that way considering all the attitude he throws my way. I told him not to say that to BM because it would hurt her feelings and being a mom is a hard job and I'm positive she loves him a lot. And she just wants the best for him even when he is punished it is out of love.

I find it kind of funny that her PAS is having a reverse affect. I have to admit I felt some happiness inside when he said that to me. Because I thought he hated my guts.

BM cant just leave SS with us for another month!

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Submitted by newbiestepmom25 on Mon, 06/24/2013 - 7:25pm

SS10 got off the phone with BM2 and told us that his mom said he has to stay with us through august. DH called her and she said she has stuff to take care of this summer and she won't be home until september. Our CO states that we get him until the third week of july. DH kept trying to tell BM she just can't tell us he is staying an extra month. Not that we don't want him here. He is a handful but we love him. Its just that DH doesn"t want SS starting school late and we didn't plan for an extra month. We can't just put him on a plane next month if BM won't be there to get him.

is there a law on PAS against a stepparent

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Submitted by newbiestepmom25 on Sun, 06/23/2013 - 10:17am

Is it ok for a BM or BF to continually put down the other parent's spouse infront of the kid and make up lies and stories and try to get the kid to hate the stepparent out of jealousy and spite. This makes it hard on the other parent when their kid hates their spouse and no matter what they say the kid will still go back to the other parent and get fed the B.S again. Is their any law on this? Particularly in florida?

* Eyes rolling to the back of my head*

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Submitted by newbiestepmom25 on Fri, 06/21/2013 - 3:04pm

DH actually had to grab SS10 by the back of his shirt and escort him back to his room yesterday like five times. I kept throwing consequences out like no video games, no tv, no bike he kept on saying he doesn't care. I told him no sweets for the rest of the summer and he huffed his way to his room and stayed. He will be grounded the whole weekend because all of that was un-necessary. BM2 called to talk to him I told her he may use the phone on Monday when he is not grounded. She went of on me trailer trash style yelling "let me talk to my baby, let me talk to my damn kid".

HELP SS extreme attittude and wont listen.

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Submitted by newbiestepmom25 on Thu, 06/20/2013 - 3:43pm

SS10 and SS5 keep yelling back and forth and SS10 has a bad attitude. He told SS5 he would punch him if he keeps looking at him. DH jumped in and told them to knock it off in a stern voice. That is not even why I'm pissed because ten minutes later SS sits besides me whiles I'm playing with baby and says "can you make that ugly baby stop looking at me". I sent him to his room to cool the attitude and learn some respect. He keeps just walking out of his room and ignoring DH and I. What can we do short of pyschially putting him in his room?

O:T any good vegetarian recipes

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Submitted by newbiestepmom25 on Mon, 06/17/2013 - 4:52pm

I want to add some vegetarian meals to my families diet to cut down on having to buy so much meat and DH and I want to start eating healtheir and get the kids to make better food choices. I was hoping you guys could help me out with some recipes that aren't obvious to the kids and DH that its veggies on their plate.

* no tufo please DH says it taste like dirty socks between butt cheeks lol.

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