I don't know why I let this woman get to me. She is so predictible in her inability to parent without input from BF. She was so dependent on him for everything financially as in he went to work and brought home the paycheck while she did nothing. She also ruled the roost as far as any decision making. So now she is acting like she never made a decision without his input. He never had any input while they were married and if he voiced his opinion he was shot down. As long as he brought home a paycheck that is all she was worried about.

:? So we live in a smallish town. Everyone knows everyone kinda place. BF had to have a work truck serviced. He handles all that kind of stuff. He had a truck dropped off same as always. Few minutes later the secretary comes out and hands him a message from the place he just dropped off the vehicle. He figures it is billing related. They always call and see if he wants the invoice mailed. So he hands it to the accounting clerk. Everyone is in the same office no big deal. Well accounting clerk comes out to BF and says they need to talk to you. They need to talk to him about BM :?

My BF is leaving for a week long trip. SD will be in BM's care while he is gone which is her normal time to have SD.

Now since he stood up to her yesterday (see my previous blog) she has been sending crazy text messages. Just off the wall stuff we are a little worried she might lose it again. She had a nervous breakdown a little over a year ago. She just seems unstable.

Now in his absence if she does have a breakdown we are worried about SD. Does anyone know if there is any way we can have him leave permission for SD to come home to me untill he gets back?

So BF and I aren't married don't have any definate plans to get married. But last night I was thinking I don't know how this popped in my head LOL But if something were to happen to me would he automatically take ownership of all my possessions??