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Submitted by onstrike on Mon, 09/15/2014 - 11:17am

:? Dh received a bday card from sd8 that she wrote inside of it, "you're the best thing that ever happened to me". Dh was really touched and saved it in his drawer. I think it is creepy and something that a spouse writes in a card,not a daughter to her father. It weirded me out a bit. Ewwwww.

dh notices other kids bratty behavior,but not sd8's

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Submitted by onstrike on Sun, 09/14/2014 - 7:47pm

We were at bs10's soccer game today,and were sitting by an annoying little kid who was being rude. Dh says to me "what's with that kid, I can't stand his whining!"...I wanted to tell him that his daughter is a total whiny brat.Last week at my son's game,sd8 did nothing but whine and complain.I do not understand how dh can look past his daughter's poor behavior,but notices the same crap that another random kid does,who is half sd8's age. I practically bit my tongue off holding back my words!

why even bring sd with to game?

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Submitted by onstrike on Sun, 09/07/2014 - 11:38am

My bs10 has a soccer game and unfortunately we have sd8 this weekend. This means that she will whine and complain for most of the game. It is so annoying.Dh likes to go and watch my son play,but it makes me sick how sd8 can't just sit and shut her whiny yapper for an hour! She always has some complaint and dh is falling all over himself to accommodate her. This means that I'm watching most of the game myself,while dh is hauling that brat to the bathroom or over to a shady spot because "I'm too hot daaaadddyyy"

Dh and his double standards

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Submitted by onstrike on Thu, 08/28/2014 - 6:07pm

Dh wants me to gush and fawn over sd8,the way I do with my bs and niece. I am very nice and thoughtful with sd, but not maternal,how he wants me to be with her. I just don't feel that deeply for her. Dh certainly doesn't fawn over my bs and I don't expect him too. I'm not going to be fake and force what I don't feel. I can also discipline my niece and bs without being undermined by anyone.If I say anything about bratty sd8, dh gives me nothing but crap!

No, dh i dont want sd to come with!

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Submitted by onstrike on Sun, 08/17/2014 - 11:04pm

Am I the only one who is sick of their dh asking to invite skids along for fun things when it is NOT their scheduled visitation time? I feel as though we can't do anything fun if sd isn't there. Sometimes I just don't want to deal with all the crap. It is so much more enjoyable without sd most times! If we plan anything on dh's weekend without sd, he wants to contact bm to see if sd can come with us. It's annoying the ever loving crap out of me.

what is with the short shorts?

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Submitted by onstrike on Tue, 08/12/2014 - 8:37pm

I'm a stepmom to sd8,and bm finds it appropriate to send her back to us in the most ill-fitting short shorts, the kind that also ride up the butt crack. I noticed this and of course, immediately took sd8 shopping for 3 pairs that fit. They have not returned from bm's house,so we are stuck scrambling for ones that fit her. I refuse to be seen with her dressed so inappropriately. How in the world does a bm dress a kid so trashy???

am i nuts?

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Submitted by onstrike on Sun, 08/10/2014 - 11:03pm

Hello everyone
I'm new here and am a bm and have 1sd.
I recently found out that bm asked dh to buy her beer and other groceries at a store they met up at to exchange sd.Dh apparently thought nothing of it and got her groceries. Bm "forgot" her purse. I'm so offended that dh did this. Bm cheated and got pregnant with another man's baby during their marriage. I think it is terrible boundaries and am angry at my dh. Am I nuts?

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