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A sad and baffling relationship struggle.

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Not ours.

My DW reconnected with her childhood BFF after 25 years nearly 10 years ago.  Around the time we left Houston for our Expat adventure, her BFF (K-5) and her DH and their kids moved to Houston as we were heading overseas.  My DW found her on FB about a year later.  She made sure to visit them on periodic trips back to Texas and when we relo'd back to Houston in 2018 we became couples friends with them.

Holy crap! I got an offer.

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It is not as simple as just that.

Of course... I am awaiting offers from two other companies.  One is a short term advisory position for a Middle East client.  Great money, but.. not regular full time.

A second company has put me forward to their exec team for a corporate executive director role.  That one might be interesting.

I am not sure if that one will generate an offer before I have to give the first company an answer.  The verbal offer is certainly acceptable and they said the written will be made on Monday.

Proud dad moment.

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Just got a video from the Skid of the signing ceremony for his 6 year re-enlistment in the USAF.  Sadly we could not be there with the COVID travel restrictions and his mom being hip deep in tax season.  We have yet to hear if his request for another year extension to his Germany assignment has been approved.  I expect to get that notification any day.

A Monster Calls

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I am currently watching this Netflix flick.

Scenario - a troubled COD (12yo) British kid has a mother fighting cancer, an absent father who lives in LA and has a new family (wife and baby), and has to live with his Maternal GM.  GM is stuffy and a PITA, mom is sick, sick, sick, dad is pathetic.

The kid is getting bullied at school and is an artsy type.  He is visited in his sleep by a Monster tree who will tell him three stories and then the kid must tell the Monster a story which must be the kid's truth.

The "man" strikes again.

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Just after new years my bride commented that something is up with her sister. SIL started a flavor of her usual rant about her rights being violated and idiot managers.  SIL has not called DW since just before NY.

On her way home this evening my DW called my MIL to check in.  Their conversation continued into the house for about 15-20 more minutes.  MIL commented that SIL had an interview scheduled for Friday of this week.  DW asked "Isn't she still with Target"... Crickets..................................................  MIL finally responded "No, she got fired."   

Happy New Year!

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Happy New Year to friends and family at home and around the world.  May your 2021 be a year of health, success, meaning, and adventure.  Be exellent to yourself and to each other.

(LAF) 2020 has been a rough year! Harder on some than others but it also brought me many positives.

* It taught me that we aren't in control of everything.

* I learned appreciation for things I took for granted because even freedoms that we were sure would always be there can be taken away with a snap of a finger.

* It gave me uninterrupted time with my children and family.

She never forgets Things seem to resurface at the oddest times.

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My brother and my SIL are going through the transition to empty nester status.  Their youngest is a Freshman in college.  The positive side effect of this is that my brother seems to be reconnecting with mom and dad and I.

While we were on our Big Bend Christmas adventure with mom and dad my brother and I had a text conversation for several days as connectivity would allow.   One evening my DW and I were talking before falling asleep and I reviewed the ongoing text conversation with her.

She is breeding for unconditional love.... again. The Princess Manifesto

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Dash 1

It has become so brazen that she is even openly advertising that her puppy mill of procreation is self-serving.  This kid is so damaged, and her poor children are up for a lifetime of mama drama because she thinks the solution to being abandoned by her crack head mother, and her loser father, is between her legs.  Creating yet another generation of victims is her strategy for fixing herself.

Talked to the Skid yesterday. SpermGrandHag is devastated.

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Got the chance to talk with my kid yesterday.  He is doing great. Unfortunately I had to give him some sad news.  First, my parent's Bichon went over the rainbow bridge last week.  They just got home from a 3+month RV trip where they had a great time.  The pup went to the Vet a week before the trip and all of his tests and health checks were clear. We met them in N. AZ for a week in Jul/Aug.  The pup was happy and doing great. We did notice he was struggling with depth perception in low light conditions but other than that he was his usual incorrigible self.

Feelings Vs Facts

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My thieving SIL was trolling for sympathy on FB today.   She posted a meme about getting in a fight with someone when you tell them what is bothering you and instead of apologizing they  make you feel bad for saying something then  make you feel like it was your fault.  

Her usual moron minions came to her aid with hearts and "I'm so sorry" comments.  
 

I came to her aid as well.  "Fishing for an apology can be risky and have consequences.  Feelings are not necessarily in line with the facts.  Feel better."

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