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Why is the world so full of idiot men?

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My DW's grade school BFF just filed for divorce from her apparently serially adulterous idiot DH of 25 years.  Serially adulterous because he apparently cheated about 7 years ago while she was going through breast cancer, a double radical mastectomy, reconstructive surgery, etc.... 

Anyway.... They sold a rental property that they had owned for years.  When it sold he agreed that she could use the profits from the sale to open a apothecary/spiritual witchy magicy business. My words, not theirs.  

Off topic not so random musings.

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My bride joined me in LV for the holiday weekend.  We had a great time.  Her flight was delayed by 5hrs due to Houston weather delays so we lost most of our first partial day together.  She ended up getting in at 10:45 PM. So.. we had a romantic dinner at Denny's then went back to my Candlewood Suite and passed out. So, no follow up to our romantic late night dinner at Denny's.

And then the sun comes up.

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I was an angry guy last night.  Wishing all kinds of misery and suffering on the individual(s) who broke into my car and stole my bag.  The bag, nor the Rx glasses, do I care about.  Two things are important to me.  My first Saudi driver's license from when I was 18, and my work product hard drive.  Make that 4 things. I just remembered that my Granddad's Masonic ring was in the bag, I am a 32nd Degree Scottish Rite Mason so I got his ring, and my Mont Blanc pen that was a gift from a former boss.

Dirt bags need to just be shot.

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Had a long day.  My first major facility turn around since starting my new role.  Worked 12 hours today, everything went great.  I have a great team.

Left the facility, stopped at Cracker Barrel for dinner, finished dinner, walked to the parking lot to drive to my suite hotel.  Opened the drivers door, the passenger window is shattered, my pack is gone including my work laptop.  My Rx sun glasses and my backup daily wear glasses were in the bag... and ... my 1Terrabyte backup drive with 35 years of my career work product on it.

Yep, the only copy of all of that work.

13 years of STalking!

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Woo hoo!

Happy anniversary to me.

Thanks to Dawn for this amazing place and to all the STalkers past  and present who have been such a great part of my life and made this such a dynamic community.

Enjoy the ride gang.  It can be a beautiful life if we take no crap, put  our partner, and our marriage first, and raise the kids in our home with behavioral and performance standards.

Good Luck STalker-verse.  Take care of you.

Skid milestones.

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I was so buried in job search, my nieces wedding celebration, job acceptance, and onboarding with my new company that I flashed past some great stuff in my son's life.

In mid April he reached his 10 service anniversary with the USAF.  Half way to qualifying for full military retirement.  In Oct 2020 he was promoted to E-6.  His mom and I are very proud of the man we raised together.

My manly brain farts strike again.

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Fool

My bride asked me to get new wipers for her car and fill up her washer fluid with bug guts cleaning washer fluid.

Done!. I'm the man!  Woo hoo.

Now for the brain fart.

I pulled into the Auto Parts store for the blades and washer fluid.  The kid behind the counter pulled up the part numbers for the blades.  I payed and carried the washer fluid out while the young man remived and replaced the blades.

A great week... mostly.

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We had a wonderful RagsClan event.

My beautiful niece married her long time fiance on Saturday the 17th.  Not a huge wedding but in a beautiful venue with a good gathering of friends and family.

She and her DH are truly good people, intelligent, successful, attractive, and with every indication that they will have a wonderful marriage and future much like her parents (27+ years), grandparents (five weeks short of 59 years), and her Uncle and Aunt (26+ years).

I accepted an offer! Finally I can get back to doing what I do.

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Though 20% below my usual and most recent base salary and a step down from the Jr exec levels I have been at for a decade+, this opportunity has a very significant bonus structure, the company has my path back to broader influence levels mapped out, and it gets me out of a pure service contractor/consulting environment and with a successful product manufacturer that is leveraging it's product servicing capabilities into a contracted services business supporting their product customers operations.

Dynamic, active, a very interesting change of industry for me....

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