After all the times BM left her kids when she did't have to from when she moved away to times when she had a day off, you would think i would knw by now that she will get out of seeing them as much as possible. Yet it still surprised me knowing she had tomorrow off and so did the kids (memorial day), but she chose to drop them off today anyway. And of course she was a total ass tis weekend with them. The youngest SS11 has lost his cell phone among other thigs many times both at my house and at hers, but mostly here.

I have had about all the BM I can stand for one weekend. So you alll read the last blogabut being tested. Well aparently I wasn't out of the woods yet. Bm is supposed to bring the kids home at 7:30 tonight, so at 5 I get a text from her asking me if SS17 is here! This is like the tenth time she has asked me where HER kid was on HER days? WTF? So I didn't even answer cause she's a moron and I don't want to talk to her. Plus she was still on my asshole list for giving me and my folks dirty looks yesterday. So what does she do- she come over to my house!

Crap, again, I hate being the bigger person. Today I had to put our doggy to sleep. It turned out he had cancer and was going to starve to death otherwise. So, I sobbingly took him in and did the deed, I hate being the mom. So he was originally my DH's dog with the ex and the kids. They had him for 14 years, so al the kids grew up with him. We had him the last 3 of those 14 years and I became quite attached. I am a real real real animal lover. When idiot moved to another county, she was eaving him home the whole week and feeding him one big dish of food.

I was Sassy-stepmom and now I am just Sassy. There are a few reasons I changed it-no drama though, I swear.

1. I often log in on my iPhone and it's a pain in the butt with the hyphen and all that.

2. I am tired and lazy and I don't wanna type the whole long name out.

3. I just thought of this one-I am very Sassy, but I am not just a stepmom, I am also a mom, so now I'm just Sassy