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No wonder the skids hate their mom's place....

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Submitted by Sassy on Wed, 08/12/2009 - 1:12am

I have heard several stories so far from SS16 about how his moms new hubby is an ass. And based on those stories I do think he is very weird and kind of an ass... a little background-at first BM moved to another county to be wth her new man and they stayed in a tiny tiny one bedroom condo (the kids didnt want to visit there cause theres no room) so they sold the condo and moved into BM's hubby"s mom house that sat empty-this house had a cabin on the lot with it. Both house and cabin were kinda shitty and rundown and have big bug issues!

Slightly off topic-but I find this odd...

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Submitted by Sassy on Wed, 08/12/2009 - 1:01am

I always thought either you have values and morals or you didn't, but apparently, one could have no morals in one aspect of their life and have them in another. BM never had any trouble sleeping around on DH or even flaunting it in his face while they still lived together, yet now, when her boss asks her to be dishonest with at work to make more money, she grows a conscience? Is it just me, or does that strike you as odd?

I need advice on something I thought we settled before....

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Submitted by Sassy on Tue, 07/28/2009 - 1:27am

If you read before I have SS11 SS16 and SS18. They are all wonderful stepsons and I adore them. The problem is, of course, their bm. The two older boy have continuously told me they do not want to go to her house where hubby live in another county. they don't mind being here in our town where she keeps a house to visit them on weekends at her convenience, but they hate her new beau. So, man times I have told her (usually via text) that the two oldest didn't want to go when the summer came and she wanted them for a week or whatever. Well this time, Mr.

Okay, I read all the replies.....

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Submitted by Sassy on Mon, 07/13/2009 - 5:12pm

To start off I never really pay attention to names or who writes what. Usually I read some of the recent posts and answer some if they apply or if I think I have a good point to throw in. I was not deliberately trying to attack "evryone" on here. I should have said some parents or some step parents or some other vague term. I was going to try to respond to each reply individually but there's a ton. Soemone said they thought since I hadn't replied yet, i wasn't goign to or to be here anymore-that's a load whoever that was.

I hope you don't all hate me after this one, but

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Submitted by Sassy on Mon, 07/13/2009 - 12:07am

what the heck is wrong with everybody? I know I don't know any of you on here and I don't read all the entries, but I hear so much negativity about "skids" it makes me sick. I have my stepsons 5 days a week...EVERY week and most weeks in the summer it is 6 or 7 days. I think it's great! They all get their stinky attitudes and such, but they are kids. they have been thru hell with their parents splitting up, their mom is a piece of shit who doesn't cook, clean or take care of them and they are just children!

Thaks so much for the last blog replies....new topic

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Submitted by Sassy on Tue, 07/07/2009 - 8:56pm

I usually use this site just to vent so my poor DH doesn't have to hear all the garbage on my mind when he is already in the middle of it. I try sometimes to read all the updated stuff and put in my two cents if I think it will help. You are all great for listening and I love to read the responses. It is really good for me to get another perspective on things sometimes. After all, we can't be right all the time. I just told SS16 he is supposed to be at his mom's for week in August and straight off the bat he said he wasn't going and idn't want to.

I guess its come to an end...

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Submitted by Sassy on Tue, 07/07/2009 - 3:12am

BM officially doesn't want her kids anymore. She has been trying to make it look like she's had them some this summer, but they spend most of the time at their grandparents and the few days they actually spend at her place, she is at work all day. My SS16 finally said the words out loud "I hate going over there-it sucks". I don't have the heart to tell him she wants them another week in August. My SS18 has already made it very clear he hates going over there to see her and doesn't want to.

I just need to talk for a minute (or 20)

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Submitted by Sassy on Sun, 07/05/2009 - 2:31am

I should have no real complaints these days...really. My first marriage was horrible!!! My husband abused the crap out of me, drugged me, taped me while I was drugged and finally OD'd in a bathtub where i could not save him. His ex-wife was Satan herself-I am not joking. She would tell the kids I was a whore, attack me physically and verbally in front of all the kids and even tried to belittle MY son once. She would come to my house when I was at work and talk smack while my hubby was on the ohone with me. I could always hear her in the background at my house.

I wish BM would just be their MOM for once........

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Submitted by Sassy on Sat, 06/27/2009 - 4:32pm

I am so tired of being the only f*ing bad guy in this relationship! My SS16 was failing a class we know he could have done better in all year and he scraped by with a D- to pass it at the very end. If it was up to me only, I would ave hanged that boy! So my DH and i said fine, he's been grounded from everything for almost the whole school year so we will keep him in touble all summer but make it a half grounding. So we gave him back the XBOX priveledges and TV (mostly so he wouldn't drive us nuts), but he still has no musioc or phone priveledges. I thought that was extremely fair.

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