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Both DH and his kid need a boot in the arse
I am a bit frustrated today.
I get home from work last night and DH is on the phone with his kid (D16). I left him to it, put my stuff down and waited for him to finish his conversation. From my end of things, he sounded ticked off.
Turns out, his kid has "plans" this weekend and wanted to stay in Uberskank town instead of doing her regular visit. Which, as we all know, corresponds with Father's Day weekend. A fact he pointed out to her, to which she responded "but I'd rather stay at home."
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Sigh.......6 weeks in the summer is pending
T -13 days and counting to the first two week summer visit. Or at least that is what's scheduled. DH's kid has been averaging one visit a month. Usually spent with friends about 45 minutes away. The only time she stays with DH and I is when she wants clothes or money. I don't particularly care, it's not my money she's spending. What I do care about is that DH is making her an Uberskank in training by letting her get away with it.
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I'm still laughing over DH's kid's hypocrisy!
Trip out of state with DH and his kid wasn't so bad. However, there was a moment of are you freaking kidding me for me the first day.
We were nearing the end of our trip and stopped for dinner in a town about 3 hours away from where we were heading last week. We all sit, order, go clean up and get back in time for our dinners being served.
Then DH's kid starts talking about her friend, who lives close to where she lives. Apparently Uberskank and this friend's father dated for a while and it didn't end well.
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Dreading the trip this weekend.
We (DH, his kid and I) are traveling out of state to attend a graduation ceremony for one of DH's family member. We're leaving bright and early tomorrow morning. Up until today I assumed his kid would punk out, or Uberskank would tell DH that she couldn't go for whatever reason crossed her harpy-like mind.
Unfortunately, she's going and I have to be honest. I would rather forfeit the extra days off then be stuck in a car for 12 hours with DH and his kid. He has been extremely cranky these last few days and I can't stand being around him right now.
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Thank you fellow STers
For all of those who retained their sense of humor and made me laugh several times today.
When I got onto this site this morning I was very disillusioned and disappointed in being duped. I felt foolish and stupid until I took stock of the fact of how quickly you all acted to a friend in need (or so we thought at the time). You were all supportive and generous yesterday. As bad as I felt for being tricked by a wolf in sheep's clothing, the rest of you stood up and showed me why I joined this site in first place.
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Return of the poor, poor skid or Return of the Disney Dad (warning - some language)
I seriously thought we were past this kind of bulls**t, but I guess I was wrong. This is long and I'm venting but I'm so pissed at DH right now.
Poor, poor pitiful skid, she's got it sooooooo rough. Now while I think Uberskank (BM) is a lazy, piece of shit, narcissistic Harpy, I'm TIRED of DH constantly making it the reason to bend over backwards for his kid. I'm completely fine with him doing good things for his kid but enough is enough. Seriously DH your kid is fucking PLAYING you again!!! And it's going to fucking bite us in the ass!!!
O/T - Just need to vent
I love DH but I wanted to smack him today. We were discussing our dinner plans and I said I wanted something light, like roast some chicken breasts and have a veggie with it. He said why don't we have chicken tomorrow night instead. In fact, when I go pick up my kid, you can roast a chicken while I'm gone and then we can eat when we get back.
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O/T - DH has started his Christmas Snit early this year......
I'm about ready to bitch slap my DH. He's been fine the last few days and WHAMMO.....Christmas Snit already. I usually don't have to put up with his cranky ass BS until at least the 10th of December or so. Not this year....he got up this morning and put on his bitchy, I hate Christmas pants.
Lucky me..........
So...we've had four whole days together and he's in such a bad mood that our final Thanksgiving day off, he's acting like a f**king jerk.
Sorry.....I had no where else to vent....
Why am I shocked to find out DH's kid is spending Thanksgiving with Uberskank??
DH just told me that his kid asked if she could stay back with Uberskank this Thanksgiving. Unbelievable but not unexpected. Uberskank, though unemployed and living off of the state, LOVES Black Friday. His kid made up some BS excuse about some cousin being in town and she would rather stay back and spend it with her family.
No, I didn't miss that little dig on family.
Disengaged but stepped in on school clothes issue - in skid's favor
I'm a disengaged SM. I leave all things related to DH's child to DH, with the lone exceptions of my pets and some household issues that crop up. But 95% of the time, I leave it to DH.
Except this last weekend. DH's kid has a good friend, and the friend's BioDad is taking the family to Mexico in a few weeks. BioDad said his daughter can bring a friend. So DH's kid is going to Mexico. It will be happening during one of DH's two week stints, however he didn't want to deny her a fun trip.