Are a majority of high conflict, PAS, BPD Hexs completely void of ethics and morals? How do they sleep at night telling their young children they can "choose" not to visit their father when they turn 12? Like its a fucking milestone like turning 18 and buying a lottery ticket. Who would do that? What is going to happen in life when their kids get older and decide they can choose not to go to school or work? Do these women not see how they are setting up their children for failures?

Has anyone here ever testified in their DH's custody trial? Lawyer said he will ask me to testify. The trial is coming around the corner and I'm nervous.

Since SD will be entering 4th grade in the fall, she is now eligible to try out for an independent group choir consisting of boys and girls 4th-7th grade. Hex told DH tonight on his nightly call to SD she wants SD to audition, and if she gets it she will be apart of the group. She told DH it will be good for her to be in a group, sing with others and gain discipline. Her voice raised up an octave on the "gain discipline" part so I had to bite my lip from cracking up. Glad it took her this many years to figure it out.

Hex had jaw surgery today. From what sd had told us previously, they are replacing her jaw with plastic or metal and she will be unable to talk for a while. I'm not a doctor (hex is) so I have no idea how major or minor it that surgery is. The custody trial had been planned for late July before it got pushed back and her lawyer had told our lawyer that hex would be able to attend the trial for late July as her jaw surgery was scheduled for today.