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Submitted by Willow2010 on Wed, 07/21/2010 - 10:08am

It is still hard to swallow the fact that my big, strong, strong willed, honest husband can turn into a sniveling, lying little turd just so he does not have to parent his kid. ARRRGGG.

I love my DH to death, but it turns me off SOOOO bad to see him turn into “that guy”!

SS has found the girl of his dreams. She is 16 with a pierced nose, dirty looking and has a tattoo on her back. I know she has a tattoo because she is overweight and her shirt did not go all the way down her back and make it to her jeans. Oh, and she has no curfew. Her mom must be a winner.

Deceitful or Therapy.

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Submitted by Willow2010 on Fri, 07/16/2010 - 1:43pm

Do you think that posting here, or anywhere on the internet, about your step family issues, and not disclosing that to your DH or SO, is deceitful.

I can see where it could be considered that way, but I don’t. I look at this as my therapy, and I darn sure would not tell DH what I was talking to my therapist about.

Now if I was on here trolling for some booty…that would be deceitful. But if we are all here to vent and get help, that is not deceitful, that is life/marriage saving as far as I am concerned.

I just wanna spit.

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Submitted by Willow2010 on Mon, 06/28/2010 - 11:29am

I am so angry at DH right now. Why is he such a bad father?

SS 17 met a girl at camp 5 days ago. It ends up that she lives in our town and she is almost 16 years old. SS got back 2 days ago and the first night he was home he went to her house and came home at 1:00AM. Supposed to be 12 but not my kid so I don’t care what time he gets in.

The delete option.

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Submitted by Willow2010 on Fri, 06/25/2010 - 9:03am

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Ok, I get the picture now. I will no longer try to help or give opinions on blogs that comments keep getting deleted. It is very frustrating to see good advice and then go back and it is gone because the post did not COMPLETELY agree with the original poster.

A LOT of good advice is getting missed out on because of this. This blog had some great advice, but so many comments were deleted, that it does not even make sense anymore.

Do you think...?

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Submitted by Willow2010 on Mon, 06/14/2010 - 1:17pm

I am very curious. I have noticed a few patterns with a lot of people on here.

1. There are a lot of SAHM’s are on here.
2. It also seams like a lot of us jumped into these relationship WAAAAY to soon.

1). Do you think it would be better between you, your DH, and the skids if you worked outside the home? It feels/looks like a few of you are getting taken advantage of.

Is there another way?

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Submitted by Willow2010 on Wed, 06/09/2010 - 1:13pm

DH and I pay 50/50 for everything. House, house bills, groceries…yada, yada, yada. But I don’t want to pay half for groceries anymore.

My daughter works full time and goes to school full time. My son works part time, school full time and plays baseball year round. No school for summer right now) They eat at our house MAYBE 2 time a month. That is not bending the truth. My daughter may eat fruit if I buy it. Neither one of them eats breakfast and are only here for dinner maybe once every few weeks. No lunches ever. They are usually not there for that either.

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