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AND THE TRUTH IS.......

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Submitted by young_step_mom on Tue, 11/30/2010 - 7:06pm

I ]realized that I miss my dog more than I miss SS. I was skyping w DH last night and he made a comment about how I always ask about my precious puppy and never about how SS is doing. }:) I laughed it off and told him it was because I knew if anything was wrong w SS he would tell me about it but he doesn't appreciate my dog (he's a veterinarian for god's sake!) so I have to do it from a distance. The truth is, I miss her more than I miss SS. Does this make me evil? Oh well, she is more my daughter than SS is and thanks to you guys, I can admit that.

whereas children frequently come to appreciate having a SF the situation w SMs is more difficult & SK resentment is more intense

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Submitted by young_step_mom on Wed, 11/24/2010 - 10:40am

I have to admit that finding this site was a blessing and a curse. Although I do appreciate that I now have a chance to vent to people who will listen and not criticize me for not loving my SS, it is also very difficult to read some posts because it makes me fear the future.

is this REALLY too much to ask for?

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Submitted by young_step_mom on Sat, 11/20/2010 - 2:54pm

Ok so some of you might know a little about my situation but for those of you who don't...DH lives in a foreign country, and I have slowly been moving in with him (taking things every time I go see him which is AT LEAST every 3 months, we just bought a house!) Anyway, I am graduating in June and planned to move out there right after graduation BUT I have been thinking lately that I should probably stay for at least a year after graduating so that I can pay off my student loans (I owe a small enough amount that I should be able to pay it off within a year).

"I would NEVER marry this man knowing everything I know now"

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Submitted by young_step_mom on Fri, 11/19/2010 - 11:59am

I am relatively new to this site, but since I found it I must say I have become OBSESSED!!! I just feel so at home and greatful that I now have somewhere to vent and can actually say "I don't like being a SM" and people won't look at me like I have just put a hit out on my SS!!! Anyway, my one year anniversay is coming up next month Biggrin and I must say that being a SM is not what I expected it to be.

nakedness???

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Submitted by young_step_mom on Thu, 11/18/2010 - 10:57am

So my SS is potty trained (for the most part) but my DH still has to go in and help him out when he is "done" using the bathroom. So my DH went to the store a few days ago and SS said he had to go to the bathroom. I took him in and put his little step stool so he could get on the toilet and then he asked me to leave. No big deal, he needs his privacy. Then when he was done he asked if his daddy was back yet and and I said no, so he said he would wait for him because he didn't want me to see him.

BM from HELL!!!

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Submitted by young_step_mom on Sun, 11/14/2010 - 9:37pm

BM and DH were never married. They separated before he and I even met. Regardless of all this, I feel as if she still blames me for them not being together. She is constantly telling SS3 that I am awful. SS once asked DH (when I was not around) if I really was "evil." BM refused to hand SS over to DH once when he went to pick him up because I was in the car. BM dragged SS back in the house kicking and screaming. I recently took SS out alone in the hope that we could have a little bonding time. TERRIBLE MISTAKE!

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